Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" Disturbingly enough I believe I'm a gay man trapped in a womans body and one of the best ways for me to get off is to think about SO with a man who looks vaguely like me"

This is just fantastic, lol!

Quoting Laythens Mama:" K so us I think its common my husband admitted it to me last night that he pictures other women at times"

I hope this didn't upset you!?
The fact is - it is common. That doesn't mean every man does it BUT plenty do. Also, it is no reflection on the type of man they are - it's just fantasies. Although I told my SO I was not comfortable with it so we have been working together to change our sex life into a more spiritual experience. It's been fun.