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Trying to deal with the change

posted 3rd Oct
Everything is so different now. I'm only 3 months pregnant and it seems so stressful already. Most of the friends I did have stopped talking to me after I told them. It kind of feels like I'm going to be alone throughout my entire pregnancy and it's sad to feel that way. I don't have the comfort of friends and family really like everyone else does but don't get me wrong, I'm excited that I'm going to have a baby but I'm not sure how to cope with the situation right now.
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I'm due April 8th (a girl) & live in Leesville, Louisiana
posted 3rd Oct
i honestly know the feeling... if you ever need to talk to someone message me.. good luck with your pregnancy   stay strong!
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I have 3 kids & live in Palm Harbor, Florida
posted 3rd Oct
Sorry to tell you. It's only gonna get worse after the baby. My son it 11 months..and I havent hung out with friends in.. 11 months. I dont have any close friends anymore..only acquaintences. Its me, my husband, and son. But thats all I need. It's lonely at times..but then i come on here and realize...It's this way for ALOT of moms. ANd i don't trust anyone to babysit my son, dont hvae many peopel to watch him anyway..so i havent even been away from him for more than 3 hours since hes been born. My husband and i have gon on one date, for our anniversary in the past year. It's like the commercial says..Having a baby..changes everything.
That's not to say being a mom sucks or anything...things are just different. Theres nothing more rewarding than watching your child grow and develop. The love you will feel for your baby is like nothing else in this worl. Congrats! ENjoy the rest of your pregnancy
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I have 1 child & live in Pennsylvania
posted 3rd Oct
Quoting Shannon Lrelle:" Everything is so different now. I'm only 3 months pregnant and it seems so stressful already. Most of ... [snip!] ... but don't get me wrong, I'm excited that I'm going to have a baby but I'm not sure how to cope with the situation right now. "

Right there with you! All my friends bailed. Even though i was there for them when they had their babies. Smurf em...just worry about your family now   The people who matter will make an effort to be in your life
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I live in Arizona
posted 3rd Oct
I can also relate a little. But just don't srtess too much. It's not good. But as long as you are happy with having a baby on the way. That is good. You don't want to be low & down just because you are having a baby, and because that's what some people will expect. But if your "friends" just stop talking to you because of that, then they aren't ones at all. But I have had a friend like that, even some family. The best thing you can do is stay focused, & keep a beautiful smile on your face because you gotta be strong for your baby. I do hope all is well for you & your baby. Good Luck. Us moms all need it   Keep your head up though..
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I live in Japan
posted 3rd Oct
what you are going though are mood swings you feel like its because of you all youre friends left you and you feel all alone truth is its not because of you many women have these types of thoughts i did as well when i found out at 4weeks now im 15 weeks and its just me and my husband and his family hope everything works out for you dont blame youre self
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I'm due March 27th (a girl) & live in Gilmer, Texas
posted 10th Oct
Sorry I'm so late replying. But like everyone on here said "their boyfriend/ husband" I'm single dealing with this, but the feeling has gotten better
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I'm due April 8th (a girl) & live in Leesville, Louisiana
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