Do I take them to grandmas or no?

OK, so we're cracking down on diapers and putting him in undies during the day time since he's cappable. He just takes advantage of diapers as any kid his age would. Anyways, grandma has him 2-3 days a week and is lazy about working with him. Should I send him with a fresh set of undies each day or do I leave a couple few pairs there? Either way, she'll have to work with him if I'm not sending diapers. What would you ladies do? And do I send pants to go with the undies or are their accidents usually small when training?

I would send changing clothes and extra undies.

Quoting Prttymommy3:" I would send changing clothes and extra undies."

That's kind of what I was thinking so I could be more up on things and know what accidents he had, etc since MIL doesn't communicate well either. I guess that's what I'll do. Now what about MY moms house? She has him 2 times a month or so...leave stuff there or send with? He's the only grand kid at HER house.

Quoting I♡C.:" That's kind of what I was thinking so I could be more up on things and know what accidents he had, etc ... [snip!] ... about MY moms house? She has him 2 times a month or so...leave stuff there or send with? He's the only grand kid at HER house."

Since it is just him you could just leave it. If he has enough clothes to rotate between everyone.

Quoting Prttymommy3:" Since it is just him you could just leave it. If he has enough clothes to rotate between everyone. "

Well for as often as he's with my Mom, I leave a couple few outfits there along with underwear and diapers. But, the other grandma he sees 2-3x a week, I think I'm going to bring his pants/underwear so that I have enough for home too.