Quoting Mirror Seeing:" I blame myself because, looking back, I knew there was something wrong and I would always say, "I'll ... [snip!] ... pregnant with him when Ein turned 1 and we did the balloon thing too. I just feel like I'm the only one that cares anymore."
I blame myself because a ob at a hospital told me I was pregnant. But the next month I had a cycle, so I was like no im not shes crazy. I was 19 and never been pregnant before, i was just being 19. I slept all the time and craved ice cream and hot chips DAILY. I still blew it off, I missed the next cycle. I could have easily went to the dr and said something but I didnt. His head somehow ended up in my fallopian tube and at 18 weeks he moved and bust it open. A dr told me after he was born that they could have did a surgery where they put me under and moved him, its really expensive but covered by medicaid (which I qualified for). I was so worried about work I never too time out for me, but I was in a bad situation for a kid anyway.
Everybody forgets but your his mommy. A mother will never forget her kids unless she doesnt care. Cassius and aaron have the same daddy and I have to ask him every year "WHATS TODAY". it takes him awhile but he eventually says aarons birthday.