I feel cheated

Its so unfair i just went through 9 months of pregnancy and i only had my baby 6 days..why tease me like that?

You feel cheated because you were cheated. It's not fair at all. I'm sorry you are going through this. Hugs.

I am so sorry, momma!

I'm so sorry. That's not fair.

Life smurfing sucks sometimes. Alot of things happen with no real reason or explanation behind it. Im so sorry you are experiencing this=(

You were cheated and I'm so sorry for your loss.  

Quoting *Cade*Mak*Col*:" You feel cheated because you were cheated. It's not fair at all. I'm sorry you are going through this. Hugs."

  Sorry for your loss, OP  

After having an ectopic, and a m/c before conceiving the third time, I felt the same exact way about my pregnancy that ended in stillbirth at 31 wks last October.

What you are feeling is 100% normal and don't let anyone make you feel otherwise. You're grieving right now, do whatever comes naturally.

I'm sorry for your loss.

I an so sorry for yur loss, i am in tears reading this, if yu need to talk pm me ANYTIME!

You have every right to feel cheated because you were. I'm so sorry for your loss hun.

She was born at 38 weeks and was 6 lbs 12 oz when she died she was perfect and beautiful i just dont get it and they still wont tell us what happened

Quoting kelsey gilmer:" She was born at 38 weeks and was 6 lbs 12 oz when she died she was perfect and beautiful i just dont get it and they still wont tell us what happened"

SIDS do you think? Autopsies take some time, mama. I mean, they're done shortly after, but the actual report can take some time.

Quoting kelsey gilmer:" She was born at 38 weeks and was 6 lbs 12 oz when she died she was perfect and beautiful i just dont get it and they still wont tell us what happened"

It can take a few weeks, or longer, for all the reports to come back. I'm so sorry. Nobody should lose thier child, ever.

We went to the er the night before because i had a urinary tract infection and they gave me meds a few hrs later she died in her sleep but we didn't notice til we woke up in the morning. they said the meds were safe for breastfeeding but were not sure if thats why she died.

Quoting kelsey gilmer:" We went to the er the night before because i had a urinary tract infection and they gave me meds a few ... [snip!] ... notice til we woke up in the morning. they said the meds were safe for breastfeeding but were not sure if thats why she died."

It's probably not the cause and you cannot blame yourself. Even meds that shouldn't be passed through breastmilk, they would more than likely cause other symptoms first.