re: I feel cheated

Quoting kelsey gilmer:" We went to the er the night before because i had a urinary tract infection and they gave me meds a few ... [snip!] ... notice til we woke up in the morning. they said the meds were safe for breastfeeding but were not sure if thats why she died."

I'm sure that wasn't the cause. There aren't many meds that would go through BM and cause a child to die.