Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" Yes he can and a lot of judges will grant it. They see it as his right as a father or some BS like that ."
-___- oh man. I mean here is how I look at it ... last names are such a 'serious' thing in my family my oldest has her fathers last name things went bad 2 years in so that ended. Now they ask me if I regret it - which I do not .. other then when I call the doctor and they call me Mrs. ________ NOT MY LAST NAME lol. Its actually not used a whole lot. Now because things didn't work out right off the bat with this one they just keep saying "you are definitely not giving this baby his last name, right!?" .... all because it will be different from mine and from my oldest. BUT either way you look at it when I get married - if i have another child he or she will have another different last name lmao. As my last name will change and I wont be able to give her my new name anyway. im stuck.