re: last name & paternity

<blockquote><b>Quoting Is that still my name?:</b>" I did that and it is a disaster... the plan was to change it to his when we got married... but then ... [snip!] ... scum of the earth... so when I filed for custody I requested to change it to just mine.. I am still waiting on the judgement."</blockquote>


Not true. There is a mom on here. The bd wasn't even involved with his dd but he was granted the right to change her last name to his.

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Is that still my name?:</b>" I did that and it is a disaster... ... [snip!] ... There is a mom on here. The bd wasn't even involved with his dd but he was granted the right to change her last name to his."

gah - i mean TBH ... i don't like my last name, as it is tied to people i would rather have nothing to do with. BUT if he isn't going to be involved, like he hasn't been, then I wouldn't want her having his last name. Although his last name is cute.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Miss Ashley +2:</b>" gah - i mean TBH ... i don't like my last name, as it is tied to people i would rather have nothing ... [snip!] ... going to be involved, like he hasn't been, then I wouldn't want her having his last name. Although his last name is cute. "</blockquote>




Prob best thing to do would be just give her your last name for now, make it easier for you In the long run. Its not gunna be her last name forever anyways once she gets married or whatever, and then IF it comes down to it and he wants her to have his last name and just say for arguments sake the judge grants it, you don't have to pay to change it. If it was the other way around and you gave her his last name and then regret it and want to change it You would have to fight him to do it and prob pay for it too!

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Is that still my name?:</b>" I did that and it is a disaster... ... [snip!] ... There is a mom on here. The bd wasn't even involved with his dd but he was granted the right to change her last name to his."

I'd like to talk to that mom. There must be more to it than that.