re: You're acting like a bitch!!

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Now THAT'S a real marriage. DH and I have been married for about a year and a half. I almost ripped ... [snip!] ... because he wasn't cleaning the way I like the house to be cleaned........and he STILL cooked dinner for me. Now that's LOVE."

there isn't ONE way to show love. we show love by not constantly calling each other names. we've only been married for 2 days but we've been together longer than that.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Now THAT'S a real marriage. DH and I have been married for about a year and a half. I almost ripped ... [snip!] ... because he wasn't cleaning the way I like the house to be cleaned........and he STILL cooked dinner for me. Now that's LOVE."

a marriage is never sunshine and rainbows! hahaha poor man! but smurf we like our house clean and spotless!
i was mad at him the other day for the same reason. he seriously cant put away the clothes i washed after being home ALL DAY. OOOOH NO he had time to play XBOX! no sweetie!

aww that was very sweet. mine just rubbed my feet and decided to wash bottles AND take care of her that night!  

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" there isn't ONE way to show love. we show love by not constantly calling each other names. we've only been married for 2 days but we've been together longer than that."

You haven't been married long enough to call each other names. Your time will come, dear.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" You haven't been married long enough to call each other names. Your time will come, dear."

i don't think so.. we've been living together longer than 2 days and i've never felt the need to call him any names behind his back or to his face. i love and respect him too much to do so. i will NEVER call him any kind of names on here and so far have only made one bad thread about him and that was about my shoes. nobody comes between me and my shoes and gets away unscathed.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" i don't think so.. we've been living together longer than 2 days and i've never felt the need to call ... [snip!] ... only made one bad thread about him and that was about my shoes. nobody comes between me and my shoes and gets away unscathed."

dont worry he will especially if you complain about shoes!
we will be expecting a thread soon.
no worries.
im envious, you have the perfect marriage.

Quoting Sugar Plum♡:" dont worry he will especially if you complain about shoes! we will be expecting a thread soon. no worries. im envious, you have the perfect marriage. "

awwww  

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" i don't think so.. we've been living together longer than 2 days and i've never felt the need to call ... [snip!] ... only made one bad thread about him and that was about my shoes. nobody comes between me and my shoes and gets away unscathed."

Count me in the "not married long enough to be nasty" camp too.
3 years married, a few on-again off-again (but always amiable) before that.

Never been called a bitch or any other name by my husband. Never disliked and disrespected him enough to say things about him I hear other women say about their husbands on what for them seems to be a good day. We've been beyond anger and hurt with each other, but it never... descended, into that kind of thing.

When exactly does the hatred start to creep in for the people that say it's inevitable, I wonder? When can I expect to start hating and losing respect for my husband enough to call him names and feel like he's worthless and horrible? I'd like an ETA for this change, if possible. A rough estimate is fine too.

Quoting Fourteen Ten Six Eighty:" Count me in the "not married long enough to be nasty" camp too. 3 years married, a few on-again off-again ... [snip!] ... names and feel like he's worthless and horrible? I'd like an ETA for this change, if possible. A rough estimate is fine too."

   

Quoting Fourteen Ten Six Eighty:" Count me in the "not married long enough to be nasty" camp too. 3 years married, a few on-again off-again ... [snip!] ... names and feel like he's worthless and horrible? I'd like an ETA for this change, if possible. A rough estimate is fine too."

Tha smurf are you talking about? When the hell did any of us say we hated our husbands, or thought they were worthless and horrible?

Hatred is NOT inevitable. But fighting is. If you don't fight with your husband, your marriage is smurf, sorry.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Tha smurf are you talking about? When the hell did any of us say we hated our husbands, or thought they ... [snip!] ... and horrible? Hatred is NOT inevitable. But fighting is. If you don't fight with your husband, your marriage is smurf, sorry."

Disagreeing and discussing is a hell of a lot different than name-calling and degrading one another. The worthless and horrible comment admittedly didn't pertain directly to this thread, just a general attitude that seems prevalent by women about their SOs.

Quoting Fourteen Ten Six Eighty:" Disagreeing and discussing is a hell of a lot different than name-calling and degrading one another. ... [snip!] ... admittedly didn't pertain directly to this thread, just a general attitude that seems prevalent by women about their SOs."

Get to know Mrs. Mommy to 6 and then come tell me about name-calling and degrading. She does nothing but brag about how her life is wonderful and everyone else's is smurf.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Get to know Mrs. Mommy to 6 and then come tell me about name-calling and degrading. She does nothing but brag about how her life is wonderful and everyone else's is smurf."

LOLOL what?!?! i think you have the wrong person.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Get to know Mrs. Mommy to 6 and then come tell me about name-calling and degrading. She does nothing but brag about how her life is wonderful and everyone else's is smurf."

What does that have to do with anything?

Is there an invisible section of every post that only you can see or something?

Quoting Fourteen Ten Six Eighty:" What does that have to do with anything? Is there an invisible section of every post that only you can see or something?"

"Disagreeing and discussing is a hell of a lot different than name-calling and degrading one another."

I am assuming you were meaning the fact that we were "attacking" Mrs. Mommy. Correct me if I am wrong.

And no, I just didn't feel what you had said was worth commenting on.

"The worthless and horrible comment admittedly didn't pertain directly to this thread, just a general attitude that seems prevalent by women about their SOs."

But if I must....That's quite a broad statement. I have yet to see many women on this website talk about how worthless or horrible their husbands or significant others are. If you were speaking in terms of people you actually know in "real life," then I suggest you speak to different women. Most of us on the site actually care about our husbands. Yes, we come here to vent when they piss us off. But...if we really considered them worthless, I doubt we'd be with them.