re: Doing things to your appearnce even if your SO...

Quoting Mama J♡:" Kind of , Lets just said he will be mad."

Okay. I was going to say thats absurd that if you cut or color your hair your husband will NEVER forgive you for it. Or that if you get a tattoo you'll never be forgiven, but I guess he's allowed to get one? lol

I don't know. I get asking, but I don't get this "right" people seem to feel they have to their husbands/wives bodies. I may ask my husband, and he may ask me my opinion, but in the end we do what pleases US. He knows damn well he can have an opinion, but he can't be mad at me that I cut my own hair. haha

So doesn't want me to have a hoop in my nose, he says it looks trashy... so I won't get one because I respect his opinion, but if I really wanted one he wouldn't mind.