re: ....I don't even know what to say

I dealt with that for almost 8 months with BD before he finally got arrested and went to jail for 7 months. I was 3 months prego when he went to jail and it was the BEST thing to ever happen to me! One or two nights of staying out til 8 or 7 am quickly turned into an every single night deal. And when he was around we fought over it, so he used that as an excuse to leave again. I never see or talk to him now and when I think back about how awful it was- the waking up every hour waiting for him to make it home and all of my calls/texts ignored, plus the fighting- my little girl deserves SO MUCH more than that sorry excuse of a human being.

Quoting First Time Momma(::" His phone is back on... But still didn't answer. Tomorrow when the LO and I get up we're leaving the house for the day. And I won't answer when he calls or texts!!"

I'd be so tempted to do this if i was in your situation, But i garantee he will turn it on you, And it will only make matters worse, He wont see it as you 'teaching him a lesson' and showing him how he made you feel, He'll see it as you being a hormonal bitch, And probably walk out then and there and pull the same stunt again just to spite you.
Personally i would talk to him, Tell him how you feel, Tell him it's not acceptable, And tell him if thats the life he wants to live, Free and clear of responsibility to his partner and child, To pack his smurf and leave.

Quoting First Time Momma(::" His phone is back on... But still didn't answer. Tomorrow when the LO and I get up we're leaving the house for the day. And I won't answer when he calls or texts!!"

That might sound like an answer, but really, it's just you being childish as well

Sit down and talk to your husband. Make your feelings clear. And if he cannot respect that, then leave.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" That might sound like an answer, but really, it's just you being childish as well Sit down and talk to your husband. Make your feelings clear. And if he cannot respect that, then leave."</blockquote>




I agree with this. If he doesn't want to listen and talk about it then find somewhere to stay the night.

So what ever happened? I'm a bit late, but I was wondering if maybe he was in jail?