Quoting Tavi:" Stop making yourself available to him. He hurt you. Why even consider making him feel good again? I hope it works out for you....but this just doesn't seem like one of those situations that does..."
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Although you might feel like it's a form of 'payback', I don't really think it's the other woman's fault ... [snip!] ... you are feeling drawn towards him, but I think you should end your relationship with him and try to finalize that divorce. "
Quoting Twin's Mommy:" You should just talk to him about it... Especially if it's stirring up old feelings. Either he wants ... [snip!] ... he wants to be with you or he doesn't, and is just getting free sex out of the deal, while he plays house with his girlfriend."
Quoting BG Secrets:" Yea I will, I think next time we meet up I'll be asking him, if he has no intentions of us getting back together, then I won't continue to sleep with him"