My kids father

Is seriously worthless.

After he asked to me to quit my job to be a SAHM (I did) he broke up with me. The next day. I'm still living with him bc I'm in the process of finding a new job so I can move out. I don't have family. We broke up August 10.

I started keeping track at how often he's gone or leaves for days at a time because he has threatened to take me to court for full custody of my girls. He recently (August 25th) got laid off of his job. Whatever. That's his deal. Soo as of right now I'm living off my $300 a month cash aid and $200 food stamps.

As for him being gone? Lets put it this way. I stopped marking when he left and started marking only when he was home. Since 8/10... He's been home for 24 hour stretches 7 times. That doesn't include when he shows up to grab more clothes or whatever. He is constantly partying. Constantly at the bars or at his friends house 2 hours away. I'm tired. I need a break. I need help with DD too  

And no. He doesn't look for jobs at all. Yes I found a job, waiting until 10/15 to know the location and start date and such. (New position within the company)

Good thing you're getting out then!

Sucks for your kids though  

Excuse my vent. He's 25 and was extremely involved with Dd until he broke up with me. Oh and this baby I'm pregnant with now, we TTC'd her. I seriously hate how he ruined everything. I want out. ASAP.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cariad (SuperKink):</b>" Good thing you're getting out then! Sucks for your kids though  "</blockquote>




It's just a waiting game. I hope to be in my own place by n

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cariad (SuperKink):</b>" Good thing you're getting out then! Sucks for your kids though  "</blockquote>




It's just a waiting game. I hope to be in my own place by November 30.

Quoting V & E's Mom! [17 weeks]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cariad (SuperKink):</b>" Good thing you're getting out then! ... [snip!] ... Sucks for your kids though  "</blockquote> It's just a waiting game. I hope to be in my own place by November 30."

Fingers crossed for you! I know it sucks but right now what he's doing could work in your favour custody wise ... So that's a little silver lining

he is definitely worthless. you will find someone so much better than him one day

I am soo sorry that things are going this way for you. you are right worthless! Your girls dont need someone like that..and with all this proof.. hell if he is getting any custody

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cariad (SuperKink):</b>" Fingers crossed for you! I know it sucks but right now what he's doing could work in your favour custody wise ... So that's a little silver lining"</blockquote>




I know  

I hope this job helps  

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" he is definitely worthless. you will find someone so much better than him one day"</blockquote>




I sure hope so. I have never felt this alone and I'm seriously hating every minute of life living here. With no help. I mean its one thing if my kids dad just walked our if our lives but its another to live with the bastard and not get any help whatsoever. That's the pathetic part.

Quoting V & E's Mom! [17 weeks]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" he is definitely worthless. you will ... [snip!] ... walked our if our lives but its another to live with the bastard and not get any help whatsoever. That's the pathetic part."

it is seriously so much better living on your own. just think about getting this job, saving up & getting your own space w/ your girls

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" it is seriously so much better living on your own. just think about getting this job, saving up & getting your own space w/ your girls"</blockquote>




That's all I can think about... Wanna see the apt we are gonna move into?   lol I'm pretty excited  

What a pos loser! Some men just don't realise what they have until its gone. Good luck with the new place and job!

On the bright side, less time you have to deal with the ass.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squid Kid:</b>" On the bright side, less time you have to deal with the ass."</blockquote>




Less time I get to be by myself.. I need a break from V. She's driving me insane lol and I NEED a shower. She stopped napping. And she won't shower with me anymore. And by the time her bed time is here, I'm exhausted lol