Quoting Kimber-Lily:" That seems like a lot of kids, do you stay home?.. If that was my situation I'd have to hire a Nanny to help me out! "

yes I stay home now but I want to go to school in about 2 years. i want a nanny so bad!! i mentioned it before and he seemed receptive so we might talk about it seriously later on. I want to get a maid as well just for the weekend or maybe find a nanny that can do all of that for me whenever I need her to.

Quoting Lucynda Marie:" the governmenttt DUH!!! ahahah shes a lazy asss that lives off of food stamps. *round of applause* ur such an accomplished person  )"

I don't see anything wrong with food stamps if you really need them.

Quoting Lucynda Marie:" the governmenttt DUH!!! ahahah shes a lazy asss that lives off of food stamps. *round of applause* ur such an accomplished person  )"

no government assistance over here  

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" yes I stay home now but I want to go to school in about 2 years. i want a nanny so bad!! i mentioned ... [snip!] ... I want to get a maid as well just for the weekend or maybe find a nanny that can do all of that for me whenever I need her to."

I don't understand why you need a nanny. You decided to have that many kids so it's your responsibility to take care of them and not a nanny.

me either. when u NEED them.not when u just wanna pop out a million kids knowing u cant afford to feed them'

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" no government assistance over here  "

Uh yeah. You have food stamps right? That's government assistance.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" yes I stay home now but I want to go to school in about 2 years. i want a nanny so bad!! i mentioned ... [snip!] ... I want to get a maid as well just for the weekend or maybe find a nanny that can do all of that for me whenever I need her to."

A maid might be useful for the next year or two until your older children can totally help out with a lot of the chores around the house.
Have a maid come in an hour a day it would be a big help, and probably wouldn't cost to much.

Quoting *Turtles*:" Uh yeah. You have food stamps right? That's government assistance."

not anymore.

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" A maid might be useful for the next year or two until your older children can totally help out with ... [snip!] ... of the chores around the house. Have a maid come in an hour a day it would be a big help, and probably wouldn't cost to much. "

now that you mention it, i might not even need a maid that much. i'm pretty good with cleaning and my son is a big help with his brother and my older daughters are a big help with their little sister so i might be good on that but i will probably need a nanny or a full time babysitter when i have my other kids and go to school and try to find work.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" now that you mention it, i might not even need a maid that much. i'm pretty good with cleaning and ... [snip!] ... but i will probably need a nanny or a full time babysitter when i have my other kids and go to school and try to find work."

Oh man, I couldn't imagine how pricey that would be. I can't even afford the thousand dollars a month for two of my kids. lol

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Oh man, I couldn't imagine how pricey that would be. I can't even afford the thousand dollars a month for two of my kids. lol"

he would probably pay anyway. he doesnt want his kids in daycare. i think he would prefer me to stay at home forever but that's not happening so he'll pay someone to stay with them

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:</b>" Hahaha no offense lol. Sure thing. it was pretty offensive in my opinion."</blockquote>


I said no offense because I was unsure if you would take offense to straightup facts.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:</b>" not anymore."</blockquote>


All you did was spread your legs to get off food stamps... So that's hardly an accomplishment.

Quoting Rd.:" I said no offense because I was unsure if you would take offense to straightup facts."

well I kind of did because i did consider myself to be in relationships. and whenever someone says no offense, they're usually offensive. saying no offense doesnt take away from what you have to say afterwards.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:</b>" well I kind of did because i did consider myself to be in relationships. and whenever someone says ... [snip!] ... someone says no offense, they're usually offensive. saying no offense doesnt take away from what you have to say afterwards."</blockquote>


I never said it did