Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" i just can't feel any sympathy when he works from 10-6 and comes home and has to leave again to take ... [snip!] ... poor man is. I guess they shouldnt be there every night but its your home too, tell them to leave if you want "alone" time."

  

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" i just can't feel any sympathy when he works from 10-6 and comes home and has to leave again to take ... [snip!] ... poor man is. I guess they shouldnt be there every night but its your home too, tell them to leave if you want "alone" time."

If that poor man was that tired he wouldn't have friends over everynight. Derp.

Quoting Δ ☮ ∂:" If that poor man was that tired he wouldn't have friends over everynight. Derp."

  

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" he works horrible hours and Im assuming he works very hard for your family so i would get over it.

really? u would seriously be ok with ur husband not having sex with u or cuddling or anything because his friends are over. gtfo here... go troll someone elses post.

Quoting Lucynda Marie:" really? u would seriously be ok with ur husband not having sex with u or cuddling or anything because his friends are over. gtfo here... go troll someone elses post."

Ignore her ignorance OP.
Seriously I guess I am lucky because my SO spends majority of his off time from work with me and our son.

Quoting Derpy Hooves:" It's one thing to have a busy schedule and not have any free time at all to see each other. It's completely ... [snip!] ... time and dedicate it all to something else at the neglect of your spouse.   I'm sorry he can't see how selfish he is being."

:| thatsss EXACTLY how i feel!

Quoting Mandy and her girls!~:" Seriously? He's a married man with a family, he has to devote time to her or their marriage wont last. This isn't high school."

 

Its understandable that he wants to hang with his friends but there's no reason they need to be over every day/ Even if it's just one or two nights a week that he dedicates to time between the two of you that't not too much to ask for

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" i just can't feel any sympathy when he works from 10-6 and comes home and has to leave again to take ... [snip!] ... poor man is. I guess they shouldnt be there every night but its your home too, tell them to leave if you want "alone" time."

So the man only has to go to work and then he can do as he pleases? My husband works is ass off and has some crappy hours sometimes but you better believe when he can he's home with us. Now he might be an exception to the friend thing because he doesn't really hang out with anyone but even if he did I would not think it was normal for them to be over every day. And yes I guess she could tell them to leave but then she will look like the bad wife when it should be his job to tell them. She has obviously confronted him about it so he knows how she feels and he just gets mad.

when your married, things have to change. people who dont realize this usually dont make it. id try very hard to make him understand, esp w kids! us moms need a break. im a stay at home mom, and yes my wonderful husband works very hard, like most men, and when he comes home, i dont ask a thing of him, i let him relax and unwind. and after he has an hour or so to relax, he comes and take the baby for an hour or two so i can nap, or watch tv, or shop or whatever. i dont have to ask him, he doesnt have to ask me for alone time. its a respect and love thing, and very important for your sanity! i love my hubby and son, but i need that 60 minutes to be still, and it makes all the differnce in the world. maybe have a talk and put it to him a differnt way, that you realize he works hard, and needs time to unwind, but so do you, so after he relaxes, maybe he can give you a little time to go on a walk or rest, or whatever. def def important.

Quoting *Turtles*:" Ignore her ignorance OP. Seriously I guess I am lucky because my SO spends majority of his off time from work with me and our son."

days off are mine. no doubt. he spends time with our children. helps with homework. ect. but when it comes to me and him. its like lets go shower together r something. "kids are awake" ok fine later   "ok later" knock knock. whos there. them :|

Quoting Mandy and her girls!~:" So the man only has to go to work and then he can do as he pleases? My husband works is ass off and has ... [snip!] ... it should be his job to tell them. She has obviously confronted him about it so he knows how she feels and he just gets mad."

THANK YOY VERYY MUCH!!!!!!!!
i drop hints
"ok babe im gonna make dinner so ill be waiting inside."
they dont leave cuz he tells them they can stay 4 dinner -_-

Quoting Mandy and her girls!~:" So the man only has to go to work and then he can do as he pleases? My husband works is ass off and has ... [snip!] ... it should be his job to tell them. She has obviously confronted him about it so he knows how she feels and he just gets mad."

this is literally my first day being married so excuse me for not knowing the ins and outs of a marriage yet. i take back what I say.

Quoting Lucynda Marie:" days off are mine. no doubt. he spends time with our children. helps with homework. ect. but when it ... [snip!] ... its like lets go shower together r something. "kids are awake" ok fine later   "ok later" knock knock. whos there. them :|"

Find the time to have intimacy. Go on a date on the weekends.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" i just can't feel any sympathy when he works from 10-6 and comes home and has to leave again to take ... [snip!] ... poor man is. I guess they shouldnt be there every night but its your home too, tell them to leave if you want "alone" time."

The hours aren't that horrible. I mean yeah it sucks and I'm sure he does work hard but he gets to come home and sleep and when he wakes up she makes him breakfast. If he was spending the extra time catching up on sleep I'd say she should leave him be, but he obviously isn't that exhausted if he's just spending the time hanging out with his friends. He should be dedicating time to her and their family as well.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 30:" this is literally my first day being married so excuse me for not knowing the ins and outs of a marriage yet. i take back what I say."

You don't need to be married to know. My SO and I aren't.