Which position is best...

For first time anal ?  

We tried last night and it just wasn't happening. Plus I was so nervous and couldn't relax.

But which position do you think is best for the first time? I was just laying on my back with my legs up.

Spooning

Make sure you use lube and have a couple drinks to loosen ya up

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" Spooning Make sure you use lube and have a couple drinks to loosen ya up"

All of this, definitely lol.

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" Spooning Make sure you use lube and have a couple drinks to loosen ya up"

I would have never thought of spooning! And okay, lol.

first time I tried, I was on top, facing away.
we then moved into doggy...

but I think while you're laying down is best for the lady.
so spooning would be my vote..

laying flat on my stomach, and going VERY slow! lol

me on top that way I can control everything, he gets a little out of control when it comes to that.

I like missionary the best. Any other way is too awkward for me.

Same thing happened to me this morning.
We did the face down ass up position. he barely got the head in when i was like "I need to take a smurf, I need to take a smurf!!!"

Doggy or spooning. Lots of lube. If u can use a smaller toy or something first

Honestly, I tried spooning, I tired doggy, I tried every thing, but the one that worked the best for me was missionary. Me on my back, him on top, There was no pain, and I was able to rub myself to take away some of the "I gotta smurf" feeling. It was actually really enjoyable   And I agree having a couple drinks will help too. The biggest thing is, if you don't like it, stop. Or if he gets too rough, tell him to slow down. You have to communicate how your feeling, because I doubt he knows what it feels like to have his ass smurfed...

Quoting MissyMom0812:" Honestly, I tried spooning, I tired doggy, I tried every thing, but the one that worked the best for ... [snip!] ... to slow down. You have to communicate how your feeling, because I doubt he knows what it feels like to have his ass smurfed..."

Haha. I felt so stupid last night. I've been begging him to try for MONTHS and he was actually getting into it and I was just too scared.  

Quoting jordan.ℓeigh✿:" Haha. I felt so stupid last night. I've been begging him to try for MONTHS and he was actually getting into it and I was just too scared.  "

I would really try to have a few drinks. And you have to remember, if it hurts he can stop, and max, it should only hurt for another minute. It's not like he's gonna tear your ass open or anything. What's the worst that could happen? Just have him go really slow, maybe a finger or a toy in there at first to make sure you are ok with the feeling of it. You have to tell him to go SLOW and use lots of lube!

Quoting Petra and Toria:" Same thing happened to me this morning. We did the face down ass up position. he barely got the head in when i was like "I need to take a smurf, I need to take a smurf!!!""

LOL a song I know goes "Face down ass up that's the way we like to smurf!"