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14-year-old kills her baby.

Charge her as an adult
 
72% (115 votes)
Charge her as a juvenile
 
20% (32 votes)
Other
 
8% (12 votes)

re: 14-year-old kills her baby.

posted 2nd Oct
Quoting ambrahh:" Really? Okay, I guess everyone who has ever killed their child or anyone else for that matter should all be "mentally unstable" and be charged with nothing cause That makes sense."

Quiet down, n00b. No one said that, stop assuming.
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I live in Georgia
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" she knew that putting her hands around a neck would cause death. she knew she was pregnant. hid EVERYTHING. i don't see how that's grounds for mentally unstable."

I don't see your logic here. How does knowing that she was pregnant and that she was going to kill the baby mean she doesn't have a mental illness? If anything, that screams mental illness.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting 💙Jenny&Boopy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" She is only 14 years old. She is just a child ... [snip!] ... Either option would've been better than what she did. I'm sorry, there's no excuse for what she did. She should rot in prison."
Not all 14 year olds are on the same mental level   I am not saying she was mentally ill, unstable or retarded either.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Montego Bay, Jamaica
posted 2nd Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Addi's Momma:</b>" Makes it sound like they have a case for premeditated murder."</blockquote>


Exactly.
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I have 2 kids & live in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" i had my first at 16, and I can for sure say I never thought to kill my child. even when I was dealing ... [snip!] ... even when I was dealing with my PPD, PTSD and other smurf. again, because I know murder is wrong. still knew at 16, and 14."

Mentally, 14 and 16 are far apart. And what you knew at 14 has nothing to do with what she knew. You two did not have the same situation, obviously. How one person handles something has nothing to do with the next person.
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I live in Georgia
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting bbbt:" Sad how many of you are so quick to judge and punish her when I'm sure the majority of you faced (and are still facing) issues with PPD and other mental illnesses. "

Your absolutely right. I face mental illness everyday, and I would not under any circumstances kill my child and keep them in a shoe box in my room... What does my PTSD have to do with this topic?
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I have 2 kids & live in North Highlands, California
posted 2nd Oct
:'( Charge as an adult. She knew what she was doing.

I wish for my DD to never be like this if she ever got pregnant at a young age.
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posted 2nd Oct
Well everyone keeps assuming that she was mentally ill and she shouldn't be charged..how does that make any sense.
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I have 1 child & live in New Jersey
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting Jas ♥:" "he had no remorse and knew what he was doing." Well, yes of course. Send him to jail. This isn't the situation with that girl, as far as everyone knows."


It says right in the article, "Investigators say she showed no emotion during the questioning."

You would think if she felt guilty or remorseful, she would have shown that during questioning.
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I have 1 child & live in Fort Sill, Oklahoma
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting S&T+1:" In just 4 years she'll legally be an adult, she won't change into a completely different person in that ... [snip!] ... in 4 years. It's about as plausible as the guy that broke his baby's legs over a few weeks and then finally shook him to death."

I hope she will. The brain isn't even fully developed at 14.
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I have 4 angel babies & live in Tallahassee, Florida
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" Your absolutely right. I face mental illness everyday, and I would not under any circumstances kill my child and keep them in a shoe box in my room... What does my PTSD have to do with this topic?"

If I have to spell it out for you, perhaps it's best if you continue on.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" She later went to seek medical attention for herself, claiming that she just had a miscarriage. If that changes anybody's opinion..."

that just further gives evidence that it was all premeditated.
she knew she was pregnant; hid it.
knew when she was giving birth; helped by using scissors.
then killed her child, and hid him in a shoe box.

then knew to go somewhere afterwards and say she miscarried? she planned this.
she quite possibly may be mentally unstable, but she still had the mind frame to go to a dr afterwards to care for herself after what she had done to her newborn son.

she didn't wanna ruin her relationship with her family, so instead kept it hidden and killed a child. instead of telling mom, and getting help, and abortion, or plan for adoption.
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I'm due November 4th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Kansas City, Kansas
posted 2nd Oct
Adult. Obviously she has issues--anyone who kills anybody on purpose most definitely has issues. However, I don't think we should let murderers get off without any consequences, regardless of their mental status. It's incredibly sad, especially since her family seems pretty disconnected, but 14 is definitely old enough to be responsible for your actions.
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I'm due May 5th (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & live in Delight, Arkansas
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting ambrahh:" Well everyone keeps assuming that she was mentally ill and she shouldn't be charged..how does that make any sense."

Why does everyone keep assuming that she knew what she was doing? Including you? I've said this before, no one knows all of the facts.
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I live in Georgia
posted 2nd Oct
Quoting khigh:" It says right in the article, "Investigators say she showed no emotion during the questioning." You would think if she felt guilty or remorseful, she would have shown that during questioning."

She was probably in shock.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky
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