Sudden panic

Ive been in new mom lala land and have feltt so ready in every to have this baby and just today I opened my eyes to see just how UNREADY my fiancé is. I love him and know hell make a good dad but he has no idea how to be a grown up and make grown up decisions. Still gets high and spends the last bit of money we have to get high as soon as he gets paid talks about getting a ps3 instead of paying off debts. Ive never felt more NOT ready for my little man now. I already feel like a bad mom for not having had chosen a more responsible man to fall in love with and have a child with 

If he does all that, he obviously would not make a good dad.
A good dad puts his kids first and does what he needs to in order to make a better future for his kids.

Yea your right. He probably won't be a good dad  I know he's goin to love him but if he would just stop getting high he would be a great dad cause the lazyness and irresponsible decisions all stem from being high. If I could be the bread winner again like I've been this whole relationship I wouldn't be so nervous cause I know Liam would be taken of but I can't work and it sucks.

Quoting mommyrissa:" Yea your right. He probably won't be a good dad  I know he's goin to love him but if he would just stop ... [snip!] ... I've been this whole relationship I wouldn't be so nervous cause I know Liam would be taken of but I can't work and it sucks."

I know my sons dad loves him deep down, but even though he doesnt do drugs and all that....he still isnt a good dad.
Have you talked to him?

I'm sorry you're in that position   in my experience, I was constantly stressing & nitpicking with my SO about just how unprepared we were. The stress just made it worse. Focus on you, enjoy the last weeks the best you can. Sometimes for a man to really do their part, they need a good reality check. Everything should fall into place. I know you'll do what it takes to provide for your child, even if it means kicking his lazy immature ass to the curb. best wishes Xo