re: *OFFICIAL* 6+ Months TTC Thread

Quoting Bryan Ray's Mommy:" hugs and i love you. I really hope that you are pregnant! "

I don't think I am.. there are tons of girls right now on BG pregnant(from the linespotters thread) who didn't TTC and are pregnant. It really makes me hate my body right now and Im just really upset over it  

Quoting katxo:" I don't think I am.. there are tons of girls right now on BG pregnant(from the linespotters thread) ... [snip!] ... thread) who didn't TTC and are pregnant. It really makes me hate my body right now and Im just really upset over it  "

I know how you feel! If SO and I don't get pregnant by the end of the year I think we're going to quit trying. I can take many more months of this.

Quoting Bryan Ray's Mommy:" I know how you feel! If SO and I don't get pregnant by the end of the year I think we're going to quit trying. I can take many more months of this."

Are you gunna be on for a lil bit? I figured we could chat... http://tinychat.com/3che7

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" Yeah, there's a BIG difference between BG and a job. I have to hold my tongue at work. I don't think ... [snip!] ... cares for individuals with MRDD. I've already reached the conclusion that I don't like hospital nursing. It's too impersonal."

you are so right - it is REALLY hard keeping my mouth shut, but its my job so I do. Now here that's different lol  

<blockquote><b>Quoting katxo:</b>" WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYIY are the ones WHO AREN'T TRYING END UP SmUrfING PREGNANT?!?! Using condoms and let me ... [snip!] ... you pregnant anyway.. SmUrfing hell.. I am seriously doubting I am pregnant... Maybe I just have the stomach bug or something"</blockqu

I know. It's so unfair. Yesterday some girl was like, "I was on BC and we used condoms and he pulled out, but I still got pregnant!" WTF?! How does that happen? My DH and I used to use condoms religiously. The time we forgot, I got pregnant with my daughter. Now I have no such luck. Maybe I should get on BC. People ALWAYS seem to get pregnant on BC. Sorry you're frustrated, Kat. Sometimes this site is not very therapeutic.

well looks like I had a faulty test... awesome right and I think I just had the stomach bug or something b/c Im starting to feel a little better... AF should be here this weekend.. I'm so excited... Looks like not having another baby is in my cards... I'm feeling very unlucky. Oh well

Quoting katxo:" well looks like I had a faulty test... awesome right and I think I just had the stomach bug or something ... [snip!] ... be here this weekend.. I'm so excited... Looks like not having another baby is in my cards... I'm feeling very unlucky. Oh well"

*cling* I'm so sorry hun.

I'm really really upset over this fake line.. maybe it was an evap and I got way too excited over it.. I just don't understand WHY it's taking so long. What is wrong with me?? I can't even get pregnant like a normal person.NOTHING is working!!!!!!!!!!  (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((

Quoting katxo:" I'm really really upset over this fake line.. maybe it was an evap and I got way too excited over it.. ... [snip!] ... me?? I can't even get pregnant like a normal person.NOTHING is working!!!!!!!!!!  ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((("

Maybe some preseed will help? That's all I used this month. Do you make a lot of ewcm? I didn't.

Quoting Mðmmå Çhï¢lꆆê~ 3wks:" Maybe some preseed will help? That's all I used this month. Do you make a lot of ewcm? I didn't."

Yeah I do. it's gross. lol. I mean it matters but it doesn't matter b/c I just dont think Im meant to have another baby.. I don't wanna go on a year of trying to go see a doctor. I don't want to see a doctor. I just don't understand why it's taking so long and WHY women who barely have sex or have sex just once can get pregnant before me? What am I doing wrong? I feel like Im not even a real woman sometimes b/c it's so easier for others to get pregnant.. I'm just really over it.. I don't think I would be so upset over it had all the posts Ive not seen lately was "omg we only did it once, omg he barely put it in there" like awesome for you..............

*tight hug* Maybe it's on your hubby's end? Maybe he's been doing stuff that kills off sperm... does he drink a lot of caffeine? Does he wear tightie whities? Does he take hot baths?

Do you take prenatals? Maybe that could help? I'm not sure what else it could be. I just know I had the same thoughts a few times and they aren't fun. *squeeze*

Quoting Mðmmå Çhï¢lꆆê~ 3wks:" *tight hug* Maybe it's on your hubby's end? Maybe he's been doing stuff that kills off sperm... does ... [snip!] ... could help? I'm not sure what else it could be. I just know I had the same thoughts a few times and they aren't fun. *squeeze*"

nah, he doesn't do any of those things. boxers, always drinks tons of water, takes luke warm showers. I really don't think it's on his end though. Weight isn't even an issue on either one of our ends.. Oh well. The only thing I can do is sit back and watch more women get their BFP's.

Quoting katxo:" nah, he doesn't do any of those things. boxers, always drinks tons of water, takes luke warm showers. ... [snip!] ... even an issue on either one of our ends.. Oh well. The only thing I can do is sit back and watch more women get their BFP's."

*Hugs*

Why is it that some girls/women try to make you feel about grieving your losses and/or wanting another baby? Some girl told me that I should be grateful, because I have my DD. Um, I am grateful. If anything, the losses have made me even MORE grateful. Oh, and another one, "You be should thankful that you have a child." So, just because I have one child, I can't want any more? I can't be sad that I've lost babies? It doesn't make sense to me.

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" Why is it that some girls/women try to make you feel about grieving your losses and/or wanting another ... [snip!] ... So, just because I have one child, I can't want any more? I can't be sad that I've lost babies? It doesn't make sense to me."

WTF? When was this? I'd rip them a new smurf if anyone said any of those things to me? Who are they to judge the suffering we are trying to overcome by wanting another child? Who cares if you have already had one? Ugh, reading that makes me feel for you so hard(not that I don't already) but wtf man....