re: So called friends.

Quoting SheIsWhoSheIs:" Aww so sorry to hear all that. Ive had alot of expirences also having friends I never was a 50 friend ... [snip!] ... still make up because friends are always suppose to be there for friends lol sorry long post but Im a friendless person  "

lmao! is that why i always write a novel on each post!?  

yeah I had one "friend" who was talking crap about me & since we live in a small town & i'm related to like 75% of the population, It got back to me & that pretty much killed our friendship.

The other girl, I found out was hooked on pills & was driving around with a togo cup (like from a gas station) with her vodka/OJ in it, her husband was very abusive & they broke up like every 5 seconds & it was just too much drama, she wouldn't leave him & I couldn't handle hearing all the stories she'd tell me about what he did to her... I tried to help her get away from him at one point but she kept going back to him..... not to mention I don't want people that abuse drugs & alcohol like that, around my children.... I thought about calling her in because 9 times out of 10 she was drinking while on pills & had her kids in the car... but I never got a chance to get her her license plate number, I'm not a "cop caller" but THAT is not something I agree with AT ALL.

and then this last girl... idk what went wrong...  

I know this feeling all too well. I have zero friends on real life too. To be honest about 6 years ago I just gave up trying to make friends. I just got tired of the fake people. It's just my dh and kids now outside of them I'm a loner. :/

Quoting *Turtles*:" I have had problems making friends. I would have been upset too if I were you."

Thanks, I kept feeling like maybe I shouldn't have been so upset... I just wish she would have told me herself that she was hiring someone else to do the photos... it upset me that I had to find out on facebook...  

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" IKR. i think my last "best friend" never should have been such a thing though. i was with BD for 2 ... [snip!] ... my problem is making friends. i don't know how. i don't work or go to school. am i supposed to make an ad on craigslist?! ugh."

Oh man that's crazy!!
yeah that's my problem too... too much drama with some people & it's just not something I want to be a part of! I have enough drama of my own I don't need other people adding to it!  
and like you i settled down sooner than other girls my age, I have never been into partying, I am a homebody, I like being home with my family.
A lot of people up here think there is nothing better to do than go out every weekend & get crazy drunk & whatever else they do...

Quoting Sugarhiccup:" I know this feeling all too well. I have zero friends on real life too. To be honest about 6 years ago ... [snip!] ... up trying to make friends. I just got tired of the fake people. It's just my dh and kids now outside of them I'm a loner. :/"

Yeah, that's how it's been for me... but these 3 girls over the years I let my guard down for & I regret doing that now. I was a sahm for over 7 years so I wasn't very social, I'd get depressed & just lock myself up in the house...  

Ah sounds like me Stay at home mom thing isnt all its cracked up to be only because it gets so lonely and depressing. It only feels like there is so many shows to watch and puzzles to do. My life as of now felt like only diapers bottles and diapers and bottles lol. I guess if I had more people that had kids and was able to get out and walk around atleast that would help!

GOOD! I'm so glad to read this, well not that you don't have friends, I'm sorry about that, but I'm not the only one! Since I had my LO my two bestfriends (who I live above) have abandoned me. I got my supposed best friend a job at the hospital I work at and she doesn't talk to me ever. I asked her what was going on if she was upset about something and she said no, that I have my family now and she doesn't want to bother me. I was okay, thats legit. So I texted her a couple times and tried calling her and never got a response. So, whatever. I'm not playing that game. I have my LO and DH, and I love them both so much. But I so miss girl talk! If I have to hear one more thing that DH wants to do to his car I'm going to cry. lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bethany Umbel:</b>" GOOD! I'm so glad to read this, well not that you don't have friends, I'm sorry about that, but I'm not ... [snip!] ... both so much. But I so miss girl talk! If I have to hear one more thing that DH wants to do to his car I'm going to cry. lol"</blockquote>



Such BS. That's exactly why I don't even try anymore.

Quoting Timeless[Due 4.29]#3:" Ah sounds like me Stay at home mom thing isnt all its cracked up to be only because it gets so lonely ... [snip!] ... and bottles lol. I guess if I had more people that had kids and was able to get out and walk around atleast that would help!"

well, I'm not a stay at home mom anymore, I've been working for about a year now... I stayed home for about 7 years, and I got tired of it after so long!

But, now that I work... I miss being home... i'm glad I only work part time now at least, it helps! at least I get out of the house!
All my "friends" have kids... it didn't help.