Quoting eur009:" What do you do when you start to feel depressed?.. I'm due in six weeks and I haven't felt this way yet ... [snip!] ... I love her? What do I do.. and am I going to take this out on her emotionally or will these feelings go away when she is here"
I am so sorry to hear tht mamma. The same thing happened to me. We didnt plan her but we had been together a long time we were engaged when I was 7 months pregnant he left. Im only 19 as well. I know it hurts and Im not sure if the hurt will ever go away. My DD is 3 1/2 months now and I still hurt everyday. It seems like it will never go away. I feel like it wont because we made something so special together which makes him special to me. But as far as you taking it out on her everyone is different so I cant speak for you but I never took it out on my DD. I still love her more than anything and I love her more and more each day and everyday that passes that he doesnt see her makes me hate him that much more because she is so special to me. So I think you dont have to worry about taking it out on her shell get more than enough love from just you!
And Im here if you need to talk!