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re: why kids shouldn't have kids.

posted 3rd Oct
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" This isn't D&D... but whatever. Do you not punish your children when they do wrong? Of course you ... [snip!] ... a life sentence, I really don't know the whole story so I cannot say what should happen to her. But a friggin' hug??   "

Honestly having a lack of love and understanding can cause this mess. Yes, I do punish but as I said the fact that she has done this and the entire world knows about it will be punishment enough - do you not think? Just for a second imagine it was you - you saw red and smurfed up big style. It would probably be a challenge not to kill yourself too when you realize what you have actually done. I think she has a life sentence anyway.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in Plymouth, United Kingdom
posted 3rd Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" This isn't D&D... but whatever. Do you not punish your children when they do wrong? Of course you ... [snip!] ... a life sentence, I really don't know the whole story so I cannot say what should happen to her. But a friggin' hug??   "</blockquote>

I agree!

I thought this was in pregnancy issues. Does she actually thinks this is in the debate and discuss forum? She just doesnt get it just like she doesnt undetstand that 14 isnt a baby. Lmao @ a hug........like seriously what is that going to do.
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I live in California
posted 3rd Oct
Quoting ___RAIDERETTE___:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" This isn't D&D... but whatever. Do ... [snip!] ... doesnt get it just like she doesmt undetstand that 14 isnt a baby. Lmao @ a hug........like seriously what is that going to do."

I haven't got time for you.
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I have 1 child & live in Plymouth, United Kingdom
posted 3rd Oct
Quoting baking my bun:" Honestly having a lack of love and understanding can cause this mess. Yes, I do punish but as I said ... [snip!] ... be a challenge not to kill yourself too when you realize what you have actually done. I think she has a life sentence anyway."

the fact that she has done this and the entire world knows about it will be punishment enough - do you not think?


No, I do not think that. I do not know if she feels remorse or not and even if she does, it's not enough. Not only are teaching her "just feel bad about it and it's okay!" but you are also teaching any and all 14 year old girls that since they are young and cannot get an abortion without consent or parental notification, they can just kill the baby when it was born and say "I'm haunted by this" and go on with their lives without any punishment. There is a big picture here too... not just this one girl's life on the line.

People throw their kids in trash, murder them and neglect them all the time...
Don't think that this is so uncommon and that someone has to feel horrible about doing it.
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I have 2 kids & live in Quetzaltenango, Guatemala
posted 3rd Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting baking my bun:</b>" Honestly having a lack of love and understanding can cause this mess. Yes, I do punish but as I said ... [snip!] ... be a challenge not to kill yourself too when you realize what you have actually done. I think she has a life sentence anyway."</blockquote>




I highly doubt she would kill herself but now you going too far and looking beyond things. She isnt showing remorse so why would she want to kill herself? Js she smurfed up yes but dont forgot who is to blame too. She is going to get what she deserves and what the court wants.
quotesmurfs?
I live in California
posted 3rd Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting baking my bun:</b>" I haven't got time for you."</blockquote>




You sure do by typing that smurf ^^
quotesmurfs?
I live in California
posted 3rd Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" the fact that she has done this and the entire world knows about it will be punishment enough - do you ... [snip!] ... and neglect them all the time... Don't think that this is so uncommon and that someone has to feel horrible about doing it. "</blockquote>




Omg very well said.
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I live in California
posted 3rd Oct
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" the fact that she has done this and the entire world knows about it will be punishment enough - do you ... [snip!] ... and neglect them all the time... Don't think that this is so uncommon and that someone has to feel horrible about doing it. "

Hmm... 14 year old girl. Oh well - let's just punish everyone as we are all on the same level right?
Lol.
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I have 1 child & live in Plymouth, United Kingdom
posted 3rd Oct
Quoting baking my bun:" Hmm... 14 year old girl. Oh well - let's just punish everyone as we are all on the same level right? Lol."



I never said that... I said to look at the bigger picture.

This is a very public case now, people are watching. You have to set examples. It's not always fair but it's what's best for the "big picture". People need to know that there are consequences for their actions regardless of their age. So if 14 year old does this and a 24 year old do this, they both need to be punished for it in accordance with the law and their mental stability at the time of the crime.

Punishments, IMO should be 'age appropriate' though.
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I have 2 kids & live in Quetzaltenango, Guatemala
posted 3rd Oct
And seriously, putting LOL or LMAO at the end of every post is annoying.
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I have 2 kids & live in Quetzaltenango, Guatemala
posted 4th Oct
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I never said that... I said to look at the bigger picture. This is a very public case now, people ... [snip!] ... with the law and their mental stability at the time of the crime. Punishments, IMO should be 'age appropriate' though. "
 
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Santa Rosa, California
posted 4th Oct
Quoting Lil princess and Bambino:" Everyone that kills has some sort of mental problem, that does not mean I will feel bad for them... ... [snip!] ... feel bad for them... I do not feel bad for a lot of people who murder...Like Casey Anthony, and a bunch of other crazy bitches."
amen.
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I have 1 child & live in London, United Kingdom
posted 4th Oct
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I never said that... I said to look at the bigger picture. This is a very public case now, people ... [snip!] ... with the law and their mental stability at the time of the crime. Punishments, IMO should be 'age appropriate' though. "
    
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in North Carolina
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