Quoting baking my bun:" Honestly having a lack of love and understanding can cause this mess. Yes, I do punish but as I said ... [snip!] ... be a challenge not to kill yourself too when you realize what you have actually done. I think she has a life sentence anyway."
the fact that she has done this and the entire world knows about it will be punishment enough - do you not think?
No, I do not
think that. I do not know if she feels remorse or not and even if she does, it's not enough. Not only are teaching her "just feel bad about it and it's okay!" but you are also teaching any and all 14 year old girls that since they are young and cannot get an abortion without consent or parental notification, they can just kill the baby when it was born and say "I'm haunted by this" and go on with their lives without any punishment. There is a big picture here too... not just this one girl's life on the line.
People throw their kids in trash, murder them and neglect them all the time...
Don't think that this is so uncommon and that someone has
to feel horrible about doing it.