re: I cheated

Quoting Becky☮Will:" Oh yeah I totally agree. If my boyfriend or husband or whoever I'm with ever cheated on me, I wouldnt ... [snip!] ... what turns her on is that the guys are married, and she doesnt feel bad about it, just makes her a little scummy in my book."

My ex cheated on me a million times. I cannot be friends with those women, but I would never call them whores or homewreckers or anything.

But, if a woman meets a man, knows he married but still falls in love with him, I wouldn't judge her... but if a woman is looking for married men because of a rush or whatever... yeah, I just don't understand that.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" My ex cheated on me a million times. I cannot be friends with those women, but I would never call ... [snip!] ... judge her... but if a woman is looking for married men because of a rush or whatever... yeah, I just don't understand that. "

OP is 100% the definition of a homewrecker.

I totally understand the falling in love thing, I mean you can't help it. Really. Even in the smurfed up circumstances where a sibling or friend gets left for the other sibling or friend. That's messed up, but once again you really can't help who you fall for.
OPs situation is way different though lol

Well didn't this just get more dysfunctional. I don't see a therapist telling someone they should be a mistress but ok. That is all I'm going to say.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Petra and Toria:</b>" WHY DO YOU GUYS CARE!? as long as she isnt stealing your man, why does it bother you guys? sometimes ... [snip!] ... lifestyle or person that you do not want to jeopardize it at the moment. Something that is prohibited always intrigues people."</blockquote>



Wouldn't be a little hypocritical to only be upset if it happens to you? When someone is married it means they are supposed to be committed to one person. Both husband and mistress are to blame. You don't have to give in because you get attention and it 'thrills' you.