Quoting BG Secrets:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" OK then I assume your kid(s) are under 10 years ... [snip!] ... hate admitting it to myself, but sometimes I feel like my life would have been completely different if I didn't have children."
When SO and I split last year, he had him 50% of the time. I went out all the time, partied, got drunk, had random hook ups, went to the casino, etc etc etc.
After a month or two it got really old and I just wanted DS back 100% of the time.
Sometimes especially when you get married and pregnant young, you need a break to figure out what you really want. I didnt have a break, because I still had DS 4 days and 3 nights a week(I was working the other 4 nights until 2am but I was bartending at a strip club so it was mostly just partying while I made money).
But my point is the split will be good for many reasons. You don't want to be with your husband anymore, and you will get some small breaks from being a full time mom as well.