Quoting Martha Marshall:" Seems reasonable to ask him to pay for the extended time in child care, plus maybe that'll encourage ... [snip!] ... life... just make sure you have a back up plan in case he flakes not only on picking up your daughter but paying as well. "
yes.. My parents are willing to help pay if It ends up being too much.. since i can afford the few morning hours.
butt, he doesnt have a job and is known for not paying for anything. :/
i just dont know what else to do..
This sorta 'forces' him to be a parent.. because even his lawyer said he better not flake.