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Complimenting guys...

posted 1st Oct
I have never been one to give compliments, I feel awkward. Idk how to be in a relationship and make the guy know I am attracted to him. I am not very touchy either. This was a constant issue with my BD and it has been 4 years since we broke up and I have not been with anyone "seriously" and I am starting to think it maybe that I am just too dry...I can't show my feelings very well and I'm not mushy, the only time I got like that it didn't end up well anyways.

Uugh idk I just feel like I will be alone forever.
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 1st Oct
I am like this too.
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I have 1 child & live in Utah
posted 1st Oct
Quoting *Turtles*:" I am like this too."

It sucks because I think about saying nice things I just can never get it out! I also think of doing nice gestures and I just feel like a cheese-ball and never do it.
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 1st Oct
I am this way, but its because I'm insecure and have never thought any good man would want to be with me.. so I don't show emotion... I'm trying with so because he is the first man to show me sincerity and love
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I'm due June 10th, have 1 child & live in Oregon
posted 1st Oct
I'm like this except for the one guy I truly loved. I can't even begin to try faking that mushy stuff. It has to feel completely natural and warranted.
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I have 2 kids & live in Ohio
posted 1st Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" I'm like this except for the one guy I truly loved. I can't even begin to try faking that mushy stuff. It has to feel completely natural and warranted."</blockquote>



Agree
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I'm due June 10th, have 1 child & live in Oregon
posted 1st Oct
Quoting Mommy2Kay:" It sucks because I think about saying nice things I just can never get it out! I also think of doing nice gestures and I just feel like a cheese-ball and never do it."

Me too. I feel funny complimenting people. I try to compliment SO, but when I do he gets surprised cuz I don't do it often.
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I have 1 child & live in Utah
posted 1st Oct
I'm like this too, one ex even told me I was a "cold fish" lol

I don't know what guys want or like or where the line is between being affectionate and attentive or just clingy.
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I have 3 kids & live in Arizona
posted 1st Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Spencer Pratt:</b>" I'm like this too, one ex even told me I was a "cold fish" lol I don't know what guys want or like or where the line is between being affectionate and attentive or just clingy."</blockquote>




Grab his dick. That's a compliment right? It's sign language  
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I have 2 kids & live in Ohio
posted 1st Oct
Quoting Spencer Pratt:" I'm like this too, one ex even told me I was a "cold fish" lol I don't know what guys want or like or where the line is between being affectionate and attentive or just clingy."

Exactly! This is really my issue, I don't want to come off too string and I end up being completely off.
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 1st Oct
Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Spencer Pratt:</b>" I'm like this too, one ex even told me I ... [snip!] ... and attentive or just clingy."</blockquote> Grab his dick. That's a compliment right? It's sign language  "

See, I have only been completely open and not shy during sex with my BD. I have been with other guys but since it hasn't been in serious relationship I just can't be as open with them.
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 1st Oct
Quoting sua madre bella:" I am this way, but its because I'm insecure and have never thought any good man would want to be with ... [snip!] ... want to be with me.. so I don't show emotion... I'm trying with so because he is the first man to show me sincerity and love"

Maybe this has something to do with it too because I just feel like if I give my relationship my all and it fails, I feel like I would be more devastated if I had opened up with the person more. I did this with a guy, we started dating with long distance (met through a friend) and it ended quickly after we met. He seemed to be perfect guy and gave me the best bday and valentine's day I have ever had but when it ended I felt like crap for opening up the way I did.
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 1st Oct
Quoting Mommy2Kay:" I have never been one to give compliments, I feel awkward. Idk how to be in a relationship and make the ... [snip!] ... I'm not mushy, the only time I got like that it didn't end up well anyways. Uugh idk I just feel like I will be alone forever."


You don't need to address HOW to change it. You need to address WHY you are that way. Why do you feel it's hard for you? Were you abused Do you feel like if you allow yourself to behave that way that you will be vulnerable? Are you a narcicist? lol
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I have 2 kids & live in California
posted 1st Oct
Quoting Is that still my name?:" You don't need to address HOW to change it. You need to address WHY you are that way. Why do you feel ... [snip!] ... Were you abused Do you feel like if you allow yourself to behave that way that you will be vulnerable? Are you a narcicist? lol"
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 1st Oct
So that is the issue you need to address. You can't give yourself to someone when you are still afraid of everyone or waiting for the other shoe to drop.
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I have 2 kids & live in California
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