re: Complimenting guys...

Quoting Is that still my name?:" So that is the issue you need to address. You can't give yourself to someone when you are still afraid of everyone or waiting for the other shoe to drop."

Thanks a lot! I really don't know what to do about it   I'm marked for life...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Is that still my name?:</b>" You don't need to address HOW to change it. You need to address WHY you are that way. Why do you feel ... [snip!] ... Were you abused Do you feel like if you allow yourself to behave that way that you will be vulnerable? Are you a narcicist? lol"</blockquote>




A narcissist is a very very vain person. They are overly confident in themselves, not insecure

Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Is that still my name?:</b>" You don't need to address HOW ... [snip!] ... lol"</blockquote> A narcissist is a very very vain person. They are overly confident in themselves, not insecure"

Right.... so they don't give in to other people's needs and are apathetic.... It's ok. I already talked to the OP.