abort a child.. no not me..please not me

My boyfriend finally gave me the ultimatum tonight...
Either him, or the baby.
He says a aren't financially stable.
I agree.we aren't.
I'm broken hearted right now.
He's my manager, and the person I love, he's threatened to fire me and and called me a bitch.
Said I have to be out tomorrow if I choose the baby.
I have no where to go. And if I move, will he fire me right away.
I feel like I'm trapped. All I can do is abort.
I honestly feel like dying right now. I'm so hurt.
I don't understand his love for me right now... He says I trapped him. I most definitely did NOT. Is this a defense mechanism? He's probably hurting too right?
I know I should suck it up...but I'm just so confused. My brain us suffering from an overload. And I feel unloved.
I don't even know what I'm asking right now...

He can't legally fire you for being pregnant, it's very illegal and you could actually sue him for it. You need to talk to someone over his head and let them know what's going on if he tries to pursue firing you. That's just bull smurf.
Do not do something you don't want because someone is blackmailing you.. I'm so so sorry you're going through all of that D:

He's being selfish and not supportive. If you really want this child then leave him and file for child support after the baby is here.

I am so sorry mommas.

Wow what a smurfing piece of Smurf he is. I would sue his ass if he fired me over not wanting to get an abortion. YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE!

I am so sorry you are going through this. He cannot legally fire you for having an abortion. And I would fight that all the way. If YOU do not want to abort then dont. Its a choice only you can make and you need to be ok with whatever choice you make. There are places you can get help and support if you truly have no one.

He can't make you do anything you don't want to, Hun. He also can't legally fire you for that.

Quoting Almyk:" He can't legally fire you for being pregnant, it's very illegal and you could actually sue him for it. ... [snip!] ... Do not do something you don't want because someone is blackmailing you.. I'm so so sorry you're going through all of that D:"

 
Oh and yes he can't fire you for being pregnant, it's illegal.

Someone else CANNOT make that decision for you. You must not allow someone else to decide for you to have an abortion. IF you in fact want this baby please choose baby.

That is a ridiculous ultimatum to give someone. I am not really financially stable. I am almost 20 and my fiance is the one who works I don't have a job. We are on low income housing and food stamps, but it has helped having family around we've gotten most things we need from family and yes most is hand me down, but the point is we can make it and I think you can too. Maybe he is acting this way because he is scared, but it still isn't right.

Any man that really loved you would not put you in that situation.if it were me i would keep the baby let him fire me and sue the smurf out of him and the company.that is so wrong on so many levels.you could probley end up with his job lol.

Quoting *Turtles*:" He's being selfish and not supportive. If you really want this child then leave him and file for child support after the baby is here."

Yep I agree.

He can't fire you over that, I am pretty sure that is illegal. You can threaten him with that..If you really want your baby I wouldn't abort for nobody, in all honesty he doesn't sound like he loves you. Someone that loves doesn't do that and doesn't say those things. I'm so sorry!

You can say you went through with it, apply for other jobs, and once the baby is born go after CS.

Quoting Almyk:" He can't legally fire you for being pregnant, it's very illegal and you could actually sue him for it. ... [snip!] ... Do not do something you don't want because someone is blackmailing you.. I'm so so sorry you're going through all of that D:"

  

That was a big deal, the same situation not long ago.

http://www.serpefirm.com/roanoke-waitress-fired-for-refusing-to-get-abortion.aspx

http://www.roanoke.com/news/breaking/wb/313459

http://www.roanoke.com/news/roanoke/wb/311542

Let him try to fire you.

Hun I would FIRST, Leave his ass.Go to a shelter if you have to! SECOND, Report his ass to corporate (first for the actual relationship and then for firing you over being pregnant with HIS kid!)

This dude sounds crazy! I mean I know that a kid is a lot of struggle but to give you an ultimatum of him or the baby he helped make is just screwed up! If you want the baby that is. I'm sorry you have to go through this! I also went through this with my DD1 (except he wasn't my manager) He even went as far as trying to kill me and the baby!