re: abort a child.. no not me..please not me

<blockquote><b>Quoting Almyk:</b>" He can't legally fire you for being pregnant, it's very illegal and you could actually sue him for it. ... [snip!] ... Do not do something you don't want because someone is blackmailing you.. I'm so so sorry you're going through all of that D:"</blockquote>


Agree you could sue him/the business if he fires you fort those reason s.

I would choose my baby over a man any day and especially one that is giving an ultimatum to choose him or the child. You & him created.

He's not only not accepting your child he's not accepting you either, seems like a D. Bag. My Dh would never give me that ultimatum! NEVER

Quoting **Hanna**:" I don't want him to lose his job., I don't want child sport. It just bothers me...abortion does. I love ... [snip!] ... want his money. But of we are going to be together forever....what's the difference between now and a year or three years?"

exactly.... whats the difference? have you asked him that?

The difference is, he never wants kids with you. He is stringing you along just for a smurf buddy seriously that's what it sounds like. It seems to me like you are too weak to leave, you have to be stronger than him and confident in yourself and your self worth. You are a powerful woman and need to take control of YOUR LIFE AND YOUR BODY. Don't let ANY man have control over your life and especially over your unborn child's life. That is ridiculous, I would give him an ultimatum, stop being a dick or I am telling everyone that we are together and I am pregnant with YOUR child. If he wants to be an ass he is not the one for you. You say you want to be with him forever??? Why would you want an smurf who degrades you and is only keeping you for sex????

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amanda Contento:</b>" The difference is, he never wants kids with you. He is stringing you along just for a smurf buddy seriously ... [snip!] ... You say you want to be with him forever??? Why would you want an smurf who degrades you and is only keeping you for sex???? "</blockquote>



I've got this all sorted out. LO and I are doing better now.

Quoting **Hanna**:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Amanda Contento:</b>" The difference is, he never wants kids ... [snip!] ... you and is only keeping you for sex???? "</blockquote> I've got this all sorted out. LO and I are doing better now."

What about SO?

He apologized, but we broke out off temporarily.

Until ik for sure, I'm not budging.

Quoting **Hanna**:" He apologized, but we broke out off temporarily. Until ik for sure, I'm not budging."

Good for you!   best wishes, hun.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Good for you!   best wishes, hun."</blockquote>




Thank you!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Hanna**:</b>" He apologized, but we broke out off temporarily. Until ik for sure, I'm not budging."</blockquote>



Good for you!

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Hanna**:</b>" He apologized, but we broke out off temporarily. Until ik for sure, I'm not budging."</blockquote>



Good for you!
Good luck!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Miss. Tiff:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting **Hanna**:</b>" He apologized, but we broke out off temporarily. Until ik for sure, I'm not budging."</blockquote> Good for you! Good luck!"</blockquote>



Thank you lady! (:

Even if you are not financially ready, no real man would call you names nor give you an ultimatum. Even if you do decide to abort, you should not stay with this man, in my opinion. That is not right of him to treat you that way, and it is NOT all your fault. It takes two to create a baby, and he should take responsibility. He should not legally be able to fire you over something like that, discrimination I would think. Look into that more, and maybe this is a window to bigger and better things for your life. Think about what is best and healthiest for you and your baby, no matter what you decide. You deserve to be happy. Good luck hun.