re: abort a child.. no not me..please not me

He can't fire you, and if he tries, go over his head and let them know. If you want your baby, then that is your right.

Quoting *karlees mommy*:" Any man that really loved you would not put you in that situation.if it were me i would keep the baby ... [snip!] ... me and sue the smurf out of him and the company.that is so wrong on so many levels.you could probley end up with his job lol."

 
Keep anything documenting what he's said to you. Hell, get him to text it to you if you can. Go somewhere with out him, text him, "Are you really going to fire me if I keep this baby?" and if he said "Yes" KEEP IT.
Just document whatever you can.
): -hugs-

He's reacting to the shock of it all. He can't legally fire you but proving it would be a mess. Honestly I wouldn't want to deal with it. Me personally? I'd cut my losses, move somewhere new or where you have family support perhaps. After the baby is born file for child support if you need it and want it.

Quoting Almyk:"   Keep anything documenting what he's said to you. Hell, get him to text it to you if you can. Go somewhere ... [snip!] ... "Are you really going to fire me if I keep this baby?" and if he said "Yes" KEEP IT. Just document whatever you can. ): -hugs-"

Good idea!

No man is better than you ... Your child is a part of you ... Remember that .... You can work financials out later but a . Dont let him get the best of ypu or your baby and fight for your job and b. You have plenty of yrs to work on stable financials and your baby will look.up to you knowing he/shes momma worked her ass off to give them a wonderful and didnt kill them....

and you dont think he will kick you out or fire you anyways after its done? i say go to a shelter and get back on your feet

He CANNOT fire you for being pregnant and refusing to abort. If you do not want an abortion- do not let anyone talk you into it. It is your choice and yours alone. Also I don't care if he's shocked or whatever. He has no place talking to you that way or threatening you that way. He needs to have an adult smurfing conversation. No threats.

OP, has he told his mother about you, yet? maybe that's why he wants you to abort too...maybe, maybe not.

Its hot then cold. Like last week we talked and I thought we agreed to keep it. But then tonight bam! Big blowout.
He thinks I'm going to ruin his life. Because he's paying child support on three other kids.
He doesn't seem to trust me. And he isn't standing in my shoes. When I told him about the placenta issue...that's when everything changed. He said it was gross. And he hoped the baby died to save us money..
He doesn't realize those words strike deep and hard.

Quoting **Hanna**:" Its hot then cold. Like last week we talked and I thought we agreed to keep it. But then tonight bam! ... [snip!] ... He said it was gross. And he hoped the baby died to save us money.. He doesn't realize those words strike deep and hard."

What about the placenta?

Quoting Mommy2Kay:" He can't fire you over that, I am pretty sure that is illegal. You can threaten him with that..If you ... [snip!] ... those things. I'm so sorry! You can say you went through with it, apply for other jobs, and once the baby is born go after CS."

this! Its completely illegal and the fact that he's even your manager and you guys are involved and he's threatening you would probably cause HIM to lose his job. Find someone over his head and try to get evidence of these threats. text messages- voicemails. If you want your baby I wouldn't abort....

Quoting A&J. ♥:" He CANNOT fire you for being pregnant and refusing to abort. If you do not want an abortion- do not let ... [snip!] ... has no place talking to you that way or threatening you that way. He needs to have an adult smurfing conversation. No threats. "

 

I'm so sorry you're going through this : ( I cna't even imagine the pain you're feeling. Find some family or close friends who could maybe take you and your LO's in and don't let him make you do anyhting you don't want to. There are lots of good men who would love to have that baby to take care of and ton of jobs where you wouldn't get threatened for being pregnant.
Hugs and best of luck! : )

OP, I just read back on some of your other posts. He seriously sounds like a piece of smurf. Do what you want to do.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Hanna**:</b>" Its hot then cold. Like last week we talked and I thought we agreed to keep it. But then tonight bam! ... [snip!] ... He said it was gross. And he hoped the baby died to save us money.. He doesn't realize those words strike deep and hard."</blockquote>




He's obviously stupid and didn't learn to wrap it the first three times. That's his own problem now. You still need to do what you want.