Quoting Sami&Baby Silas:" They are both fit parents so it would be hard to pick just one."
Quoting Δ ☮ ∂:" Joint custody. "
Quoting Δ ☮ ∂:" That's too vague then. I don't think the dad should just because he has more money but I don't think ... [snip!] ... don't think he necessarily shouldn't either. As a Mom I'm biased toward the Mom but it would depend on the individual people. "
Quoting ~Ice Princess~:" I never understood that. Splitting them up is not good. They should have joint custody. The mother isn't unfit, so why should he have sole custody? "
Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" Guys, in a real life situation, they would definitely get joint custody. I want to know who people would pick to have them full time if that were a possibility."
Quoting ~Ice Princess~:" The mom then. She's the mom and she's not abusing them..."
Quoting Δ ☮ ∂:" Based on the limited info I guess I'll say Mom only because Dad has more money to pay child support. I think Dad should still get a few days a week though. "
Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" I'm not saying he wouldn't get joint custody. I'm purely asking who you think would provide the best environment for a child."I realize that, I wasn't saying anything about joint custody in that post. My vote is for Mom.
Quoting ~Ice Princess~:" Mom with dad getting visitation. While I understand that she isn't there all the time, the dad isn't ... [snip!] ... the dad isn't either. The step-mother is NOT the mother. So while it's nice and all that she's available, it's not the same."