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Hiding jailhouse letters from bm

posted 30th Sep

My sons dad older kids mom is in jail on arson charges. I knew the kids wrote/drew her pictures. I didnt know all three (so&boys) got her cards. He hid the letter to the boys and the one to him, only letting it slip talking to their gma.

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I have 4 kids & live in California

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JessieLeeAnne

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posted 30th Sep

huh? I may be tired...but I didnt understand this.

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I have 1 child & live in South Carolina

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Kaylen Jean Clifford

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posted 30th Sep

Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" huh? I may be tired...but I didnt understand this. "

Right?

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I have 1 child & live in La Puente, California

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Regina George ♡

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posted 30th Sep

Your sons father, older kids, mother, is in jail for arson. I'm confused, are they not allowed to write their mother?

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I have 1 child & live in New York, New York

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how khuntastik

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posted 30th Sep

The last wk or so he has been acting very strangely. He has let her ruin his previous relationship. Our son is 4.5 months & im 10.4 wks pg again. I hv this sick feeling he is going to hv her come here when shes released. I hv noone to vent to irl so thnx

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I have 4 kids & live in California

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Regina George ♡

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posted 30th Sep

Quoting how khuntastik:" The last wk or so he has been acting very strangely. He has let her ruin his previous relationship. Our ... [snip!] ... 10.4 wks pg again. I hv this sick feeling he is going to hv her come here when shes released. I hv noone to vent to irl so thnx"

Sooooooo you think he's writing her?

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I have 1 child & live in New York, New York

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~Milk*Jugs~online

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posted 30th Sep

Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" huh? I may be tired...but I didnt understand this. "

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I'm due August 24th (a girl), have 3 kids & live in Yucca Valley, California

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JessieLeeAnne

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posted 30th Sep

Quoting how khuntastik:" The last wk or so he has been acting very strangely. He has let her ruin his previous relationship. Our ... [snip!] ... 10.4 wks pg again. I hv this sick feeling he is going to hv her come here when shes released. I hv noone to vent to irl so thnx"

So your saying your SO has let his children wrote to their mother in jail and, in return, got a letter back from her and hid it?

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I have 1 child & live in South Carolina

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how khuntastik

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posted 30th Sep

Sorry on cell. I dnt care if they send/receive letters. Im bothered hes hiding it from me, due to things from before. Hes made it a habit to tell me she comes before me and he kept me a secret from her until a wk after i had our son, bn together a yr b4

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I have 4 kids & live in California

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lil*Mama*Bear™

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posted 30th Sep

<blockquote><b>Quoting how khuntastik:</b>" Sorry on cell. I dnt care if they send/receive letters. Im bothered hes hiding it from me, due to things ... [snip!] ... it a habit to tell me she comes before me and he kept me a secret from her until a wk after i had our son, bn together a yr b4"</blockquote>

Why are you together then?

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I have 2 kids & live in Veneta, Oregon

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♥MamaToSilas♥

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posted 30th Sep

Quoting how khuntastik:" Sorry on cell. I dnt care if they send/receive letters. Im bothered hes hiding it from me, due to things ... [snip!] ... it a habit to tell me she comes before me and he kept me a secret from her until a wk after i had our son, bn together a yr b4"

I would never be with someone who hid me for a year.

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I have 1 child & live in Illinois

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you made a change in my l

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posted 30th Sep

I would not be with him for the fact that he would put her before you. If he is in a relationship with you, you need to come first. And no she would not be allowed in my home, especially if I had children. IMO.

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I'm due October 3rd (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Anaheim, California

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Its Eh-Lei

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posted 30th Sep

wait I am so confused.

Your childrens father oldest child (whom is not from you),
his mother is in jail?
& that child writes her?

I see no problem with that.

The fact HE hid the letter from the child shouldn't be a problem. Maybe he doesn't want her getting to that child?

what I do not comprehend is why is he hiding them form you?
what did they say?
& why do you think she's going to come to YOUR HOME?
-- it's YOUR HOME?

-confused.
Can you explain a little better op?

& I think I may have read somewhere he said "she comes before you?"
I'd choke him and tell him to gtfo my house.

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I live in Ocala, Florida

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