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Would it be overbearing..?

posted 29th Sep
My husband and I recently befriended a very quiet couple at our church. They moved to our area in eastern CT about a year and a half ago from upstate NY & have no family or close friends out here. I asked them how they felt about visitors when their son was born and she seemed iffy on it. Well their baby boy was born today and I was thinking of dropping off flowers and a card tomorrow and just having one of the nurses bring it in to them.
I'm a rather reserved person myself and I always seem to over think how I interact with other people- so now I'm second guessing the whole idea because I don't want them to think we're being pushy or overbearing.
If you didn't want visitors wound someone sending you something rub you the wrong way?
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I'm due October 14th, have 1 child & live in Connecticut
posted 29th Sep
I think it'd be fine  
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Beaverton, Michigan
posted 29th Sep
I don't know. I mean if you already asked them and they weren't sure, I'd call first or wait till they were home.
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I'm due September 23rd (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in North Carolina
posted 29th Sep
If your just dropping it off and not going into the room I don't see why not or maybe just give them to them after they get home
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Texas
posted 29th Sep
not overbearing at all i think its very nice and will be appreciated.i would probley do candy or a stuffed animal because flowers die and will be thrown out i always seen them as a waste unless its a potted plant.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Mooresville, North Carolina
posted 29th Sep
I would get them delivered by a florist before I would have them catch me lurking in the halls.
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I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
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