My husband and I recently befriended a very quiet couple at our church. They moved to our area in eastern CT about a year and a half ago from upstate NY & have no family or close friends out here. I asked them how they felt about visitors when their son was born and she seemed iffy on it. Well their baby boy was born today and I was thinking of dropping off flowers and a card tomorrow and just having one of the nurses bring it in to them.
I'm a rather reserved person myself and I always seem to over think how I interact with other people- so now I'm second guessing the whole idea because I don't want them to think we're being pushy or overbearing.
If you didn't want visitors wound someone sending you something rub you the wrong way?
not overbearing at all i think its very nice and will be appreciated.i would probley do candy or a stuffed animal because flowers die and will be thrown out i always seen them as a waste unless its a potted plant.