re: :( Getting an abortion.

I just went through a pregnancy scare a few months ago, and decided that I would've aborted, had I been pregnant. I too and 7 months PP, so I understand your reason. Just remember, the choice is YOURS and yours alone. Don't let anyone bully you, or make you feel bad. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. Best of luck mama. *hugs*

Quoting Brittany Riot:" I just went through a pregnancy scare a few months ago, and decided that I would've aborted, had I been ... [snip!] ... Don't let anyone bully you, or make you feel bad. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. Best of luck mama. *hugs*"

Thank you very much. It's nice having people understand, because I'm sure to catch hell from this from some of my friends/family. My mother is really ill with advanced AIDS, and told me earlier when I told her (before I took the tests) that I was afraid I was pregnant, and that my choice was abortion if I am, she told me "You're giving me a nervous breakdown. I don't want to think of you aborting my grandchild." which really hurt :/ Like, she thinks it doesn't hurt me, but I'm making the best decision I can under the circumstances.

We told my fiance's parents, and it actually went better than I thought. His mother hugged me, they told me we made the right decision, and they're going to help us pay for it :/ I guess this will be happening sometime next week.

Good luck momma!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jacquie Gallo:</b>" Thank you very much. It's nice having people understand, because I'm sure to catch hell from this from ... [snip!] ... me we made the right decision, and they're going to help us pay for it :/ I guess this will be happening sometime next week."</blockquote>




I'm so sorry to hear about your mother's illness. I'm sure she said that because she doesn't understand, and hopefully she will come around. I think you're making the best decision for you and your family. The good thing about BG is there are always ladies on here to give you support. If you ever need to talk, let me know. I've never had to have an abortion, so I can't offer first hand advice, but I can be an ear to listen. There are so many ladies that have been in your shoes, so remember, you are not alone.

feel better (:
just know you're making the best decision for your family!

I called the clinic I'll be going to yesterday and they told me to call back Wednesday (tomorrow) to schedule for next Wednesday, because I was apparently "too early" to do it this week, so I have to wait until next Wednesday to get it done.

The morning sickness is getting worse to the point where I feel ill most of the day, which is making it difficult to be as good with my 7 month old as I was =/ Especially because he's really grumpy the last 3 days.

I'm getting more sad. I know I'm making the right decision and I know I'm going to go through with it, but damn this hurts more than I thought it would

Quoting Jacquie Gallo:" I know I'm making the right decision and I know I'm going to go through with it, but damn this hurts more than I thought it would"

Hugs. Hope you and the little one feel better. This will all be over soon and you will be stronger for it.

I have been through this and know the feeling. Do what you have to do! Sending lots of hugs to you!

Hey girl!!! How's it going? Did it all work out well?

I guess. Everyone at the clinic was nice and I didn't have to deal with a long wait or anything. They saw me almost immediately, and I was knocked out for my procedure. Still feeling pretty tired and emotionally numb.

Thank you for asking.

hey mama...I know you already had it done..I have mine tomorrow.I currently have a 6 yr old and a 3 yr old(shes heard of hearing)and we dont even have 40 bucks right now to pay for stuff for the kids and stuff.It wasnt planned ,between my husband and I, and I feel like if were actully TRYING for one, it would be a diff.story, but it was an accident.I am just starting school, and we only have ONE car....I wanted to start TTC when my daughter was 5...not 3.I have had an abortion before and of course, I felt guilty,but the choice I made and WHY I made it outweighs the guilt.....by a far margin.I cant have my kids be homeless....

Quoting MrsSpence2012:" hey mama...I know you already had it done..I have mine tomorrow.I currently have a 6 yr old and a 3 yr ... [snip!] ... felt guilty,but the choice I made and WHY I made it outweighs the guilt.....by a far margin.I cant have my kids be homeless...."

I'm sorry, that sounds really tough, but I totally understand :/ We only have one car too, and I think it's unselfish. You're totally right...at least you and your family aren't homeless. I hope things get better for you :/

my story is almost exactly like yours.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jacquie Gallo:</b>" I guess. Everyone at the clinic was nice and I didn't have to deal with a long wait or anything. They ... [snip!] ... immediately, and I was knocked out for my procedure. Still feeling pretty tired and emotionally numb. Thank you for asking."</blockquote>



I'm glad you're well