Vent / advice

Ok here my husband and I are two months from having our first baby we lost our first baby at five months and our second at three months but the heart stopped measuring six weeks. My sister in law has two children and had her second months ago. Well four days ago my husband got a text from her husband who rarely if ever texts my husband asking my husband how he's feeling ( he was sick) and that the booked a Disney cruise for them to go on on my due date. When my husband said your not going be here for the birth of my baby? They said they are praying I will have the baby before they leave. My husband was there for the birth of both of their children I was sick with first baby and didn't want to bring my illness to the hospital and did go to see the second. I know how upset my husband is people are now saying how awful his sister is to him. Even MIL said she has to be careful what she does or buys for they baby as she will start nit picking and throwing a fit when we got married MIL was going to throw us a big shower and she even said to my own sister that she won't let her mother cause she is her only daughter . Do you think my husband should confront her one for being a complete coward and hiding behind her husband and 2 for being a selfish B sorry so long

No, they can see the baby when they get back. I think its fine. I'm sure there was a lot of logistical considerations when planning the cruise. Babies are hardly ever born on their due dates anyway.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ** blue butterfy **:</b>" No, they can see the baby when they get back. I think its fine. I'm sure there was a lot of logistical considerations when planning the cruise. Babies are hardly ever born on their due dates anyway."</blockquote>



I agree..

They are both off on parental leave and can go anytime

but cruises are on specific dates and they probably got a good deal. Just be appreciative you all are close enough that they will see the baby while it is still an infant, I didn't see my brothers baby until it was almost a year old!