re: When you moved in with your SO

Everybody met online.


I met mine in Jr. High....

Quoting A&J. ♥:" Were there any drastic changes? Or did you simply move in with each other and continue your lives like ... [snip!] ... like you fought more or less after you lived together? Even "disagreements"? How long did you wait before making that move?"

At first we found A LOT more. Then we got used to each other. We have bad fights maybe once every three months at this point.

Quoting L✌J:" We met online, talked for a month, and then moved in together. It was hell.   But I also got pregnant a couple months after we moved in so that might be why. Stupid hormones."

Thats us exactly lol but i got pregnant within 3 days  

As soon as we made plans for the first night to hang out, I slept at his dads house every night after that for like a month and a half until we got an apartment together. And we didn't even know eachother before that. So pretty much the first night we ever hung out, we started living together.

Quoting Christina Getty:" SO got me pregnant within like 3 months of knowing each other..and we moved in together 4 months later. ... [snip!] ... I didn't want to move in...I wanted my own apartment but I got nervous about not being able to afford everything on my own."

I totally agree with this. I think one of the reasons SO and I have SUCH a good relationship is that we had a very platonic friendship for like 2.5 years before we even started to go there.

Got married after knowing my husband for 6 months. Then moved in together, then a week later found out we were pregnant... We fought more, but only because he and I had different expectations (About everything!). We have been married for almost 9 years and have our 3rd child on the way. We still have disagreements, but if you love the person, you make it work and you work on it... each person needs to give 100% to the relationship. Sometimes arguing helps because then you know how the other person is feeling and can make those small adjustments and meet in the middle.

since the day we met...we spent every day and night together. Either he would spend the night at my apartment or I would sleep at his apartment...so it was kind of like we lived together anyway. We've been together a year and half and we've spent like maybe 4 nights away from each other....maybe less.

We bought our house after being together 1 year and a half, I was preg with our 1st tho,
We hardly fought before we moved in together, once we bought the house I think we figured, we were stuck in this forever our til we paid this damn house off lol, and we let it rain on eachother... I guess because we were more permanent, we knew 1 couldn't just leave and go home...

we moved in together after a month. I got pregnant after 4 months. Really don't argue all that much.We're going on 10 mos and we're engaged. Life moves fast sometimes. But in my opinion I think it depends on your compatibility.  .

We moved in together and it was just like any other day, except we didn't have to schedule sex. Lol

SO moved in with me after we had been dating for maybe a month. He was staying over a lot, then he showed up one day to surprise me. I was in the shower so he was stuck outside for like 30 minutes, lol. We went and got him a key made so he could get in if he needed to. Then I got tired of him leaving every night and having to sleep alone, so I 'suggested' he just move in. We have been together 2 years and 8 months. We found out we were pregnant exactly one week after our two year anniversary. We don't really fight. He is super chill so it's almost impossible to start a fight with him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monique and Dominic's mom:</b>" We moved in together and it was just like any other day, except we didn't have to schedule sex. Lol"</blockquote>




Lol we had more sex when we didn't live together... since we bought the house we have to plan sex *now* haha

<blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Monique and Dominic's mom:</b>" We moved in together and it ... [snip!] ... Lol we had more sex when we didn't live together... since we bought the house we have to plan sex *now* haha"</blockquote>




I lived with my mom, my bedroom had no door and we worked opposite schedules.
When I moved in, we had good morning and goodnight sex.
Two kids and 5 years later, what's sex? Haha

We never fought before moving in together and we don't fight now. We've been together almost 2 years and still have not had a fight. A disagreement here and there, yes...but we're able to talk about it rationally. I'm an emotional mess at the moment because of being so damn pregnant lol...but we still don't fight, just sometimes misunderstand or something happens and it brings up some skeletons from both of our past. But we work through it and in the end we still love each other more than life.

From what I've seen with other couples, if you fight before moving in together there's a good chance you're going to fight worse after moving in together. You see the other person in their comfort zone and sometimes there are things that are just not pretty. There are things that DF does that drive me nuts, but after mentioning them once or twice I just deal with it because while he tries to change the behaviors, they're so ingrained from years of doing them that I can't expect a change overnight. He does try though and that's what I look at.

We started living together after like 5 months, only because we were saving money and didn't really have money or it would have been sooner. But after our first date we hung out every day, and after the first week I spent every night with him. There weren't really drastic changed because I was already use to spending most the nights with him and always being with him. We personally had less disagreements living together then me going home some few nights.