Quoting Brittany Riot [WAL]:" I had a pregnancy scare a few months back. It was my fault, and I felt like smurf for it.. I should've ... [snip!] ... abort, because I wasn't pregnant, do you all think that I still have a right to be extremely pissed off over the crap he said?"
This is a tough one. First let me say I dont belive in abortions, or agree with them, but I am not trying to judge you at all. That being said, honestly I think the father should have some say in wether or not the child gets aborted. If they want the baby, and are willing to take care of the baby on their own then they should be able to. From what it sounds like to me, that is not your situation. Although I feel he still should have a say in it, or if you couldn't come to terms, adoption is always a good option, he has no right to talk down to you or degrade you in anyways, especially because that isnt what happened anyways. Sorry if that is a bit confusing, but since abortion is a touchy subject, I try to state my opinion with out offending anyone lol.