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posted 28th Sep
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I have 2 kids & live in Indiana
posted 28th Sep
no it doesnt make you a horrible person. how do your parents not know you are pregnant though?
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Michigan
posted 28th Sep
No, choosing adoption doesn't make someone horrible... it's a selfless act in my opinion. but your parents don't know and you're 31 weeks?
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I live in New York
posted 28th Sep
Do whats best for YOU. Its probably not going to be easy, but I suggest the first thing you do is tell your parents. Good luck [and no, considering adoption doesnt make you horrible, it means you're adult enough to weigh your options.]
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I live in Maine
posted 28th Sep
Quoting Heather [31wks]♡:" I'm a single mom pregnant with my 2nd child, the father of my 1st child has never been any help & ... [snip!] ... adoption, but I feel extremely gulity because I kept my 1st child. I'm just so lost & confused, I don't know what to do."

you're 31 weeks and your parents still dont know your pregnant? how does that happen?
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I'm due January 24th (a boy) & live in Nebraska
posted 28th Sep
You're 31 weeks pregnant and your parents don't know?
You need to tell them, you're going to break their heart.


And no, it doesn't make you horrible.
Someone in my PT gave her second child up for adoption after keeping the first.
It's a rough decision, but a selfless one.
First thing you need to do is tell your parents. That's disrespectful and you're going to hurt them, although I know it isn't an easy thing to do.
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I have 1 child & live in Indiana
posted 28th Sep
No, makes you wise to be considering all options. Do what's best for you and your children.
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I have 2 kids & live in Fucking, Austria
posted 28th Sep
No it wouldnt. Do what you feel is best. Two dead beat dads arent good. But if you do adoption you could be making your childs life so much better than you might be able to give them...plus your giving a family something they may otherwise not get..
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I have 3 kids & live in Troy, Ohio
posted 28th Sep
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" You're 31 weeks pregnant and your parents don't know? You need to tell them, you're going to break their ... [snip!] ... to do is tell your parents. That's disrespectful and you're going to hurt them, although I know it isn't an easy thing to do."
  
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I have 3 kids & live in Memphis, Tennessee
posted 28th Sep
Quoting whack a mole crazy:" you're 31 weeks and your parents still dont know your pregnant? how does that happen?"
It's pretty easy. lol

I didn't tell anyone I was pregnant till after 25 weeks. Both times.
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I have 2 kids & live in Fucking, Austria
posted 28th Sep
Quoting sophia && isaiahs mommy:" No it wouldnt. Do what you feel is best. Two dead beat dads arent good. But if you do adoption you could ... [snip!] ... life so much better than you might be able to give them...plus your giving a family something they may otherwise not get.."

 
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I live in Maine
posted 28th Sep
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" It's pretty easy. lol I didn't tell anyone I was pregnant till after 25 weeks. Both times. "



did you not show or what? i'm 23 weeks and im huge! people look at me and know im pregnant. have fora while.. lol
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I'm due January 24th (a boy) & live in Nebraska
posted 28th Sep
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" It's pretty easy. lol I didn't tell anyone I was pregnant till after 25 weeks. Both times. "


I wouldn't find it weird if she didn't live with them, lol.
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I have 1 child & live in Indiana
posted 28th Sep
Quoting whack a mole crazy:" you're 31 weeks and your parents still dont know your pregnant? how does that happen?"

A highschool acquaintance (now friend) of mine didn't tell her parents (who she lived with) until she was 38 weeks. She gained 10 pounds and it went everywhere else, BUT her belly. I didn't even know she was pregnant until after the baby came, and a mutual friend of ours told me. Sad though, she was too scared to tell anyone, and didnt' have any prenatal care...luckily, her baby turned out completely healthy  
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I have 1 child & live in Saskatchewan
posted 28th Sep
Idk my parents don't pay a whole lot of attention to notice really, lol
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I have 2 kids & live in Indiana
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