We live in Georgia. We have our schedule worked out to were I would be there during the day and he would be there at night. Plus, his mom can't wait for us to have one.

Quoting bearcavefactory:" We live in Georgia. We have our schedule worked out to were I would be there during the day and he would be there at night. Plus, his mom can't wait for us to have one."

Why can't she wait?
Seriously hun get schooling done while you can.

i'm 19 and i'm pregnant with my second child both were planned but i am married my husband and i were both in the Navy he is still in and i'm in college do what u want to do

We don't plan on actually trying for another year. Erik told me that have have to save up $2000+ before he'll stop wearing condoms. I just wanted others opinions.
We only pay $60 every 2 weeks for rent cause we rent from his parents and they don'y make us pay utilities.

Quoting bearcavefactory:" We don't plan on actually trying for another year. Erik told me that have have to save up $2000+ before ... [snip!] ... others opinions. We only pay $60 every 2 weeks for rent cause we rent from his parents and they don'y make us pay utilities. "

Go to college, graduate, get your career going, save money, buy a house, save more money and then conceive. BE FINANCIALLY STABLE!

Okay. I also do online surveys for legit companies and make around $1,500 - $2000 a month for that. But that could stop at any time so I don't count it as income.

Quoting bearcavefactory:" Okay. I also do online surveys for legit companies and make around $1,500 - $2000 a month for that. But that could stop at any time so I don't count it as income."

How many times do I need to tell you that you need to be financially stable. You need a solid income and benefits will be good. It would be selfish to bring a child into this world without being financially stable first.

I heard you and understood your points. Jeeze. I got it the first 5 comments.

I'm out of college and I'm still scared smurfless. Do I know how to care for a child? Yes, I've been taking care of others for forever it seems, but this will be my baby. Everything will be different.

You don't make enough to scratch the surface, so if you really care about the quality of life for your baby, I would wait.

Thank you for being polite, Vanessa!
I understand that taking care of a baby cost ALOTx10! I'm just dreaming it would be enough. It's hard wanting a baby knowing you can't have one yet and that people don't even support your wanting one. :/

Oops! You're name isn't Vanessa! My bad. ;)

My SO makes 1,200 a month and its still not going to be enough. He has rent to pay and car payments, bills bills bills. At least wait till your bf gets a better job before TTC.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bearcavefactory:</b>" Thank you for being polite, Vanessa! I understand that taking care of a baby cost ALOTx10! I'm just ... [snip!] ... be enough. It's hard wanting a baby knowing you can't have one yet and that people don't even support your wanting one. :/"</blockquote>

I completely understand how you feel. I'm only 20, and until my loss last august, I felt a pull to be a mother. After my second loss, I convinced myself I never wanted children. I never ttc any of my (3) pregnancies.

I was using nuvaring until I found out I was pregnant in april. I was terrified, then happy, now scared to death. I don't think It's all sunk in yet and I'm almost 29 weeks. I don't regret her, I just wish I was in a better position for her.

Again, thank you for being polite and stuff  

And thank you for taking all the posts with a grain of salt instead of going jerry springer defensive like allot of posts on here.