Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" My son got kicked out of his pediatrician for not being vaccinated and I was like okay, found a new doc and then stopped his well-baby checkups anyway."
First, my two oldest are in school and neither are vax'ed. During their registration I just asked for the religious exeption form, and all I had to do was sign it for each child and have it notorized. No one asked me anything. Though I will say, I'm from Louisiana where practically NO child get vax'ed, or does flu shots or any of that crap. Now my kids are in school in DC - they are more strict here, and I did get told by one pediatric office that they wouldn't see my kids without them being vaccinated. I did the same thing though - just found another doctor. All 5 of my kids have the same dr. now and none of them have been vaccinated.
Second, maybe also because of louisiana's laxed healthcare attitude, I never really found well-baby check ups necessary, and they weren't ever really pushed. I'd bring them in for the first two, check for jaundice and other off-the-bat newborn stuff, have them as established patients in case something did go wrong, but that was pretty much it. No one ever gave me any grief about it, though I'm wondering if they will up here in DC (this will be my first birth up here).