Quoting Go Bears!:" I had to make an account to ask this but I don't want to disclose my full name in case a fam member sees ... [snip!] ... tbh. Now that's out of the question too if I keep the pregnancy? Am I being selfish. I just don't want a fourth c-section :'("
Psh who cares...I've been ashamed to talk about some things in this section last year. Changed my name and picture, etc lol Anyway, you're def not being selfish, even tho that's what it feels like. Trust me, i know how you feel. I had two abortions last year and I'm now prego with my 3rd baby (5th including abortions) and it is hard. It's def somethin u need to talk about w ur hubby. Make sure he knows how you feel and how this is going to affect u emotionally, financially and physically. Men don't always understand everything we have to go thru for those little bundles of joy. PM me if you want.