Private Question

I had to make an account to ask this but I don't want to disclose my full name in case a fam member sees this. I'm struggling with something right now. I'm pregnant and I don't want the pregnancy. It will be my fourth [or fifth if it's twins again]. I just feel like my body cannot HANDLE another pregnancy. What kills me is that my husband wants it. He's so excited. Every pregnancy I've had he's wanted a boy and we got 3 girls. This time he doesn't even care if it's another girl he's THAT excited. But I'm dreading everyday the thought of more sleepless nights, and potty training another, and going out shopping with another. Just daily life basically. I LOVE that he's finally excited but why couldn't he have been excited with the others? Why this baby the one that I don't want this time? I don't know what to do. Also I was planning on donating my eggs again to clear out more debt and also get a boob job tbh. Now that's out of the question too if I keep the pregnancy? Am I being selfish. I just don't want a fourth c-section :'(

1) There is a BG secrets account for things you dont want to share on your account. Its against TOS to have two accounts.
2) You need to talk to your husband and make the choice together.

Quoting Jennybananna:" 1) There is a BG secrets account for things you dont want to share on your account. Its against TOS to have two accounts. 2) You need to talk to your husband and make the choice together. "

Ok thanks

Quoting Go Bears!:" I had to make an account to ask this but I don't want to disclose my full name in case a fam member sees ... [snip!] ... tbh. Now that's out of the question too if I keep the pregnancy? Am I being selfish. I just don't want a fourth c-section :'("

Psh who cares...I've been ashamed to talk about some things in this section last year. Changed my name and picture, etc lol Anyway, you're def not being selfish, even tho that's what it feels like. Trust me, i know how you feel. I had two abortions last year and I'm now prego with my 3rd baby (5th including abortions) and it is hard. It's def somethin u need to talk about w ur hubby. Make sure he knows how you feel and how this is going to affect u emotionally, financially and physically. Men don't always understand everything we have to go thru for those little bundles of joy. PM me if you want.

Quoting Jennybananna:" 1) There is a BG secrets account for things you dont want to share on your account. Its against TOS to have two accounts. 2) You need to talk to your husband and make the choice together. "

:S I agree who cares, i don't blame her for making another account i would too, if need be... i think that this is an inappropriate time for lectures!!

I hope everything was figured out, listen to your body