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if he wants one that badly, he will want one when you guys are out of high school, and you're done with school (trade school, college, whatever), get some life experience and enjoy the chance you have as a teen adult.

Id wait. I had my son when I was 20 and wish I had him when I was like 25.

<blockquote><b>Quoting El  :</b>" Please, before I begin, I beg of all of you... don't judge me.. you have no idea.. I met my boyfriend ... [snip!] ... added 500+/monthly Is this too soon? We want this so bad, to try again... but would we be judged for this? How bad is this??"</blockquote>



Im Very sorry about your loss. I think you should wait and finish school and get a better job. With your income together you can do it but it would be very hard, you would Also need your own place. And what if you have to some reason quit your job? I dont think 1000 is enough to live on but it depends on your bills.

I would wait. I had my first when I was 21 and although I don't regret my kids, there are things I wish I had done first and sometimes I wish I would've waited. You have PLENTY of time to have children in the future. Focus on YOUR life and YOUR goals and college and enjoying your youth while you're young.

I'm sorry for your loss. I had an ectopic pregnancy last December and it took me several months to move passed it, so I understand how you're feeling. Try not to dwell on the past and focus on your life and your future.

Good luck.

On $1500 a month where will you live, how will you eat? That's not enough for one person let alone 2 adults and an infant!
Go to school, learn a trade, get educated, get a good job and a stable place to live....then talk about kids.

Well unfortunately someone is always going to judge you...
Personally, I would wait. If you have been in depression before, it might just throw you back in if God forbid another miscarriage happened. Take it as a chance to keep saving up and strengthening yourself and your relationship... when you feel 110% emotionally stable, start trying. Just what I'd do, though.

I would wait. I had my first in my mid 20's and it was hard.
I would try and establish a good job or career, go to college if you wish and live a little.
If he wants one that bad, he should be willing to wait.

Id wait a little bit longer. Wait a year or a little more, just for the fact after your body goes through something like that it doesnt bounce back as fast as you think. You could even give risk to have more health risks to you and your baby. But...its something I would say feel a lot more strongly about, and maybe you two could get married first to keep your mind off of it. And then try again..ya know. But good luck   and sorry about your loss..dont listen to anyone..your strongg for what you had to deal with as a teen.

so sorry for your loss...as far as trying now, have fun being a kid! i had my first at 18, married at 20, second baby at 21 (stepson was in the mix the entire time). i've got a degree, working on furthering it, happily married and LOVE my babies.....but if i could have held off and enjoyed my own childhood a little longer, i would have. go to college, hang out with friends, enjoy time with your bf without adding kids into the mix just yet.   good luck to you

I'm very sorry for your loss and I can't even imagine it.

I have a 14 month old & one on the way. I'm 20 years old. As much as I love my daughter and Soon to be baby, I should have waited. I am a very mature person, but even at 18 or 20, or even 35. having a baby is hard.

I would definitely wait. Although a very horrible experience, some things are just meant to be. Perhaps you two weren't ready; too young. I had my DD at 22 and I'm going to graduate school and it's very hard. I love her so much, but I just wish I could've finished school first. And honestly, even though your BD says he's ready, he has no idea what's to come. It takes your relationship to a whole new level. Enjoy being young and in love. Enjoy experiencing things together first before you start a family. Enjoy sleeping in & a clean house   seriously though, if you truly do want some advice, listen to what everyone else is saying. Experienced mothers are just trying to help you realize the life changing experience a baby is. They are definitely a blessing and I'm so sorry you went through a loss - but you still have time to make a family and have kids.

I'd wait. I became a mum at 17 and whilst I love my son with all that I am, I wish I'd had him years later...