re: Not finding out the sex

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Do what you want...if they would actually keep it a secret they could find out but that takes knowing ... [snip!] ... for my bff and have a cake made with the color inside (gender neutral decorations) and cut the cake once everyone gets there."

Quoting h*:" If you don't want to the don't!! My second baby was a surprise (not by choice, she wouldn't show us lol) ... [snip!] ... more special she let us look ourselves. I think If you do end up having a surprise then ask your dr if you can looks yourselves"

Quoting *Lex!e* ( A&G's mom ):" Keep it a secret!   I wanted to do it with my 2nd but I caved in and when she ran over his bottom shot I saw and KNEW it was another boy  "

Quoting almuuh:" I have my anatomy scan tomorrow and I don't want to find out the sex, but my family and my SO's family ... [snip!] ... I know I'll go crazy if she knows and I don't. Please help encourage me so I don't fall into the pressure!!!!!!!! Thank you."

Quoting almuuh:" I have my anatomy scan tomorrow and I don't want to find out the sex, but my family and my SO's family ... [snip!] ... I know I'll go crazy if she knows and I don't. Please help encourage me so I don't fall into the pressure!!!!!!!! Thank you."

If you don't really wanna know the sex then don't and just wait til say your shower instead of birth. I saw online where this lady didn't know either but other family members did. So at her shower they had a cake that was white with pink and blue question marks and when she cut into the cake the filling was pink! So darn cute. I wanna kinda not know either when God blesses me with my second, but I want a girl soooooo bad I will have to know