pregnant after miscarriage

I miscarried this past June and it was the hardest thing I ever went through. I was 3 days late and took a a hpt that came out positive but I can't even get happy I mean I want this baby more than anything but i'm afraid to get my hopes up I keep telling myself to be happy but it feels like my mind just won't let me.

I think that is normal after having a loss. But just give yourself some time. A few weeks from now you will probably start feeling better about it

I had a mc 10 years ago, and have had 3 successful pregnancies since and 1 chem pregnancy, I never allowed myself to get super excited until after the first trimester, and was still nervous that something would happen.

i had a MC july 2011 and it took me over a year to get pregnant again. I'm now 36weeks pregnant. I was so freaked out and scared of MC again but he's is very healthy   Just try to stay calm and not think of the what ifs cause it doesnt help you or the baby! Good luck mama, i hope this is your rainbow baby  

Quoting miss my angel baby:" I miscarried this past June and it was the hardest thing I ever went through. I was 3 days late and ... [snip!] ... than anything but i'm afraid to get my hopes up I keep telling myself to be happy but it feels like my mind just won't let me."

After every loss, I am less and less able to attach to the new pregnancy.

Its normal and natural.

As the pregnancy progresses and you see a heartbeat or feel little kicks, I promise it will all come flooding back

I just found out I was pregnant after a twin m/c in June.. and honestly.. I'm not too excited about this pregnancy ( It was wanted) but I'm filled with nerves and no excitement this time.

I am sorry for your lost but congrats on your new baby! I know what you mean,same thing happened to me. I am nervous but excited..you be more caution after. Sleep,rest, and dont stress. TAKE CARE!!  

This happened to me last december. I had a miscarriage on christmas day. I went almost 2 months without a period. Then i got pregnant again in february. It literally took me until i saw the baby at 20 weeks to finally believe i was pregnant. I thought i would lose him. That god hadnt wanted me to have children.. Im 31 weeks now and cant wait for my son to get here ! Youll be happy again. Youre still not through grieving and trust me it wont be something you get over easily. But just take your time and but the time the baby is here youll be ok  

It's normal to be afraid of another loss. When I got pregnant after my first miscarriage, I was afraid of letting myself get attached. When I finally let myself get excited, I found out that my baby didn't have a heartbeat. Last time I was pregnant, I didn't let myself get attached at all. It's a protective mechanism. Hopefully when you start to experience some symptoms, you'll feel more at ease. I wish you the best.

Thank you ladies for the advice and sharing your stories. I just got a call from the doctor who made me get my hcg levels checked and they are going i'm the right direction but I still don't feel anything at all. I hated the morning sickness I was getting with my two kids and now that's all I want to experience so I know everything is ok