what is better

I Am scared i dont know what to do a c- section or natural birth

Natural is definitely better than major abdominal surgery.

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" Natural is definitely better than major abdominal surgery."

 

Unless there's a medical reason you should always try for a natural birth, and by natural I don't mean you have to do no pain meds I just mean vaginal delivery.

I'd love to be able to go natural, However with my health etc It's just not smart.
My first was an emergency c-section, this one will be scheduled. If I had a choice I'd go natural.

I had a natural with my first and a c-section with my second. C-section recovery sucked but one good thing is I can sneeze and not pee my pants and I can hold my bladder if I have to go to the bathroom really bad...

Are you talking about a vbac ? (vaginally birth after a c-section). I don't know many doctors that would cut someone open for no reason. They like us to at least try giving birth vaginally. That is how babies are made to be born after all. It's less stress and damage to our bodies most of the time.

I personally had an vaginal delivery/emergency c-section/vbac/emergency c-section. The vbac was a piece of cake. That was actually my best/easiest delivery.

Do a vaginal birth. It's always better to avoid a c-section if you can.

vaginal all the way. at least attempt it.

vag, i had a c-sect and totally regret it. mine was kind of emergency because i couldnt dialate past a 5 and i was in labor for EVER, but it sucked ass.

Vaginal.
I would give anything to have a natural vaginal birth. I'll never have that as an option. C-sections suck; it's major surgery & it's not an exciting way to bring your baby into the world.

Thank you all im just scared its my first and iv heard
About alot of women tearing

Quoting One_Hott_Momma:" I had a natural with my first and a c-section with my second. C-section recovery sucked but one good ... [snip!] ... but one good thing is I can sneeze and not pee my pants and I can hold my bladder if I have to go to the bathroom really bad..."

O.o I had a vaginal birth and can hold my bladder and don't pee when I sneeze!

Quoting Teresa. Gutierrez:" Thank you all im just scared its my first and iv heard About alot of women tearing"

Well, it's definitely a possibility, but it's better than having your abdominal muscles cut open.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" Well, it's definitely a possibility, but it's better than having your abdominal muscles cut open."</blockquote>




Yes very true.. Any pain meds?