re: Hes driving me INSANE! Help!

@Bizzybee "I was a wreck until I bought her some toys"

haha

wow what a post!! i posted a similar post about my 3 month old son and i did not get a reaction like that 
my son needs constant interaction as well, im sure its not colic maybe teething??. i look at other mothers and there baby is so quiet, mine may sit there for a good 15 - 20 min then gets upset or fussy,i do all the usual things to pin point whats wrong but sometimes its not good enough  I hope it gets better for you .......... hope it does for me tooo.

@Sarah people who have not actually been through this don't get it - they talk about buying some toys and playing more with the child as if these things have NOT BEEN TRIED ALREADY, they have no idea what we're dealing with

....we're buying Dr Sears book on high needs babies and hope it can help us

good luck with your little one

Quoting megxxx:" @Bizzybee "I was a wreck until I bought her some toys" haha"

Your point? We waited until it was developmentally appropriate to introduce toys, and things got better when she could occupy herself. Are you SURE you've dealt with a high needs child? Most high needs parents will tell you, me included, that once they can play and occupy more of their own time, it gets so much easier.

Besides, you talk about US respecting the OP... she wants this thread to die. You should respect that and just leave it alone instead of trying to start something with me. I don't care if your daughter has a high needs child or if you do or what. You did NOT read what was originally said, thus you do not understand why anyone said what they did at first.

Had she worded her original post anywhere near the same as she has it now, she would have never gotten any rude or harsh replies from anyone. You did not see it, so you do NOT understand.

Oh, and since I don't feel like replying twice... No, a child wired to interact all the time does not make me immediately jump to ADD or ADHD. It makes me wonder why my child is so active, and it made me go to the pediatrician to ask, but it did not make me wonder about any form of special needs. I wore my child constantly to give her the closeness she wanted, and at 3 months we introduced a few new toys to help her focus on other things. It worked. (And yes, toys and board books CAN help a high needs child because they do learn to focus and interact with things other than you or daddy)

I admit I could have worded my reply better, but the original post OP had up actually infuriated ME and made my heart hurt for her child for a minute. So you can't say anything about anything anyone else said until you see that, and that won't happen.. OH and others posted the same thing I did, seconds after I did. Why are you trying to single me out and make me feel bad? (You're not)

yours was the first and the worst

over and out to you bizzy body

Quoting megxxx:" yours was the first and the worst over and out to you bizzy body"

Yeah, sure it was. Keep telling yourself that. They were all the very same, you just read it the way you wanted, just like the OP did, when I re-explained it to her later on.