30 day sex challenge to better your marriage
posted 25th Sep
So I read that if you have sex for 30 days, everyday, regardless of your mood or if you're fighting, it will do wonders for your marriage.
So my husband and I are starting on monday, I hate sex.. Ugh dreading this! I'm on my period this week, so Monday is our start date, and it'll likely be more like 28 days haha, since I'll start again before 30 days.
Anyone feel like joining me? We can motivate each other to keep it up, haha, if you skip a day you're out. unless you start your period, and then you gotta start back up and finish the 30!
And don't come in here and say you already have sex everyday because I'll hate you! :p
What do you think?!
quoteposted 25th Sep
I wish I could (I am never in the mood anymore) but SO and I work opposite shifts so its impossible.
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I'm not technically married but we have lived together for over a year.
I honestly couldn't do it, that is a lot of sex lol. I would just be like "Lets get this over with..."
quoteposted 25th Sep
I'll give it a go! DH works from 3 PM until 3 AM, but I like a challenge.
quoteposted 25th Sep
I'm very curious about this, I'm going to bring it up to DH and see if he'd be game!
It'll definitely be a challenge though since I'm not big on sex a whole lot either and DH and I operate on opposite schedules. xD
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Ohioposted 25th Sep
I think my SO would not participate lol....I'm the one with the high sex drive. We have sex once a week. I wish it was more like twice, but it works.
Plus I don't really believe that just having sex for 30 days straight will help save a marriage.....maybe bring a couple a little closer but I think more should go into it. Like doing the "Love Dare" too
quoteposted 25th Sep
I can't help but think a man came up with this idea lol.
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That wouldn't happen here. He's always "too tired" .
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I will join.
I have ZERO sex drive. So what I do to semi get in the mood is watch porn.
quotesmurfs?posted 25th Sep
I read "30 day sex change...."
lmao - Coffee is making..
And I'm pregnant and SO works out of town a few days a week But let me know how it worked. My theory is if you feel like you have to do it, you won't enjoy it and it would hurt your sex life.... (Could just be my excuse though Let us know!)
quoteposted 25th Sep
Id love to do this! Its been 2 n a half months since dh n I had sex cuz hes freaked out that his daughter is inside me. After I give birth im all for it!
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Well, we already have sex everyda. but I'll do it!
quoteposted 25th Sep
Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" I wish I could (I am never in the mood anymore) but SO and I work opposite shifts so its impossible."
Sounds like us except I am in the mood most days even when I am tired and have worked all day. My husband and I work opposite shifts as well. We haven't had sex since May.
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Quoting O ♥ G:" I think my SO would not participate lol....I'm the one with the high sex drive. We have sex once a week. ... [snip!] ... save a marriage.....maybe bring a couple a little closer but I think more should go into it. Like doing the "Love Dare" too"
I'm so against the "love dare" that I want to scream every time I see it! haha
quoteposted 25th Sep
Well, DH leaves again for another month on 22 October. So, I will try! We have a great marriage, and he was so understanding even when I completely lost my sex drive. Now it's back with a vengeance. At least he will be happy until he leaves again!
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