re: 30 day sex challenge to better your marriage

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" I didn't say save, I said it would better it. And I'm not saying it'll work, I'm saying I wanna try!"</blockquote>




I wasn't necessarily referring to your relationship.....just the whole concept as a whole.

Good for you for wanting to try! I don't think we could do it, I'm pregnant and dry as the Sahara down there

<blockquote><b>Quoting [JadeLee]:</b>" I'm not technically married but we have lived together for over a year. I honestly couldn't do it, that is a lot of sex lol. I would just be like "Lets get this over with...""</blockquote>




Pffsh! Try it!

<blockquote><b>Quoting O ♥ G:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" I didn't say save, I said it would better ... [snip!] ... as a whole. Good for you for wanting to try! I don't think we could do it, I'm pregnant and dry as the Sahara down there"</blockquote>




Well I don't think it could hurt!

I'll do it!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" If I could make him, I would. Believe me, I have only ever turned him down one time in our entire relationship."</blockquote>




Same here! Just one time when I was on my period!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenn{+2}:</b>" I'll do it!"</blockquote>




Yes!!

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" Cool! Well I need some extra hormone release. I avoid sex so much I've actually considered medications. It's really no good for my relationship. "

it doesnt have to start out w/''sex'' right away...some sexual talking/touching to build things up is great.....when you dont have time to get totally naked a hand job under the table is always good (start wearing skirts or dresses for ''easy access) and oral is always a good alternative. After u few days you will find that all those things are foreplay instead of alternatives  ....i dont know how i am going to make it a few weeks pp when this baby pops out

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting O ♥ G:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary ... [snip!] ... think we could do it, I'm pregnant and dry as the Sahara down there"</blockquote> Well I don't think it could hurt!"</blockquote>

No it will hurt, literally. I'm 7 months and every time we do it, I feel raw down there and it burns. Plus he's out of town right now. I think it's a good idea though and maybe we could try it for the future. It will be difficult though because we have opposite schedules and he will have to go out of town sometimes

<blockquote><b>Quoting O ♥ G:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting O ... [snip!] ... it for the future. It will be difficult though because we have opposite schedules and he will have to go out of town sometimes"</blockquote>



Lmao, I hear ya!

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" If I could make him, I would. Believe me, I have only ever turned him down one time in our entire relationship."

I've literally never turned my BF down. I get rejected twice a week. wtf, right?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ProginoskesII (SuperKink):</b>" I've literally never turned my BF down. I get rejected twice a week. wtf, right?"</blockquote>




I would be smurfing livid.

Quoting ProginoskesII (SuperKink):" I've literally never turned my BF down. I get rejected twice a week. wtf, right?"

It really sucks.   I get rejected almost every single night. The one night I turned him down, our babysitter was here and staying the night and I was on my period.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" It really sucks.   I get rejected almost every single night. The one night I turned him down, our babysitter was here and staying the night and I was on my period."</blockquote>



So what do you say? That's no way to live  

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" It really sucks.   I get rejected ... [snip!] ... was here and staying the night and I was on my period."</blockquote> So what do you say? That's no way to live  "

It depends. Sometimes I just don't say anything and go to bed/clean up his dinner/whatever. Sometimes we get into fights. He's trying to do better though.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" It depends. Sometimes I just don't say anything and go to bed/clean up his dinner/whatever. Sometimes we get into fights. He's trying to do better though. "</blockquote>




I'm sorry, although, if that's the only problem in the relationship, you're doing okay.

Still, rejection can get to the person even though I'm sure it's not you, it's hard not to feel undesireable I imagine.