re: 30 day sex challenge to better your marriage

Quoting I♡C.:" Sounds like us except I am in the mood most days even when I am tired and have worked all day. My husband and I work opposite shifts as well. We haven't had sex since May."

Oh wow we had sex on like Saturday night I think ... I work Sunday - Thursday and he works Tuesday - Saturday so Saturday nights is pretty much it for us

I already started doing this about 10mo ago....and am happy to say that it has really improved our relationship. Its definately true that the more you ''do it'' the more you want ''it''....We only missed mabe 15days in the whole 10mo (ended up preggo the month after we started, so didnt have to worry about AF) but DH has worked out of town a few times for a few days in a row and boy was i a horny mess while he was gone....we sent dirty texts and pics to each other to keep the ''fire burning''....now that i am huge, its getting more difficult but we amuse ourselves by attemptempting different positions or atleast doing oral sex  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" I'm so against the "love dare" that I want to scream every time I see it! haha"</blockquote>




Yeah I hear ya, but there are some great things in there. I was going to do it but didn't get very far. I loved the first dare though which was "Don't say anything negative to your partner no matter what." because that was something I needed to work on and it has really helped.

We tried and only made it a week straight! We finished off the month by doing it as often as we could but doing it daily was crazy impossible with his work schedule and exhaustion.

Good luck!! I am going to try again soon  

What about the week you're on your period? lol

Quoting Commander Shepard:" I'll give it a go! DH works from 3 PM until 3 AM, but I like a challenge.  "

Yay!

No thanks. If I force myself to have sex when I'm not in the mood, it just pisses me off. I miss my old sex drive.

Quoting October Rust:" I'm very curious about this, I'm going to bring it up to DH and see if he'd be game! It'll definitely ... [snip!] ... definitely be a challenge though since I'm not big on sex a whole lot either and DH and I operate on opposite schedules. xD"

Totally in the same boat! I'm dreading this, we usually do it ONCE a month, not the whole month!

Quoting O ♥ G:" I think my SO would not participate lol....I'm the one with the high sex drive. We have sex once a week. ... [snip!] ... save a marriage.....maybe bring a couple a little closer but I think more should go into it. Like doing the "Love Dare" too"

I didn't say save, I said it would better it. And I'm not saying it'll work, I'm saying I wanna try!

Quoting ProginoskesII (SuperKink):" That wouldn't happen here. He's always "too tired"  ."

  And he thinks our marriage is "fine."

Quoting Petra and Toria:" I will join. I have ZERO sex drive. So what I do to semi get in the mood is watch porn."

Haha cool!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" Yay!"</blockquote>



Of course I haven't asked DH yet but I doubt he'll object.  

Quoting Bella's Mommy *38wk*:" Id love to do this! Its been 2 n a half months since dh n I had sex cuz hes freaked out that his daughter is inside me. After I give birth im all for it!"

Oh man! Okay awesome! I'm excited to see how long I last.

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" Well, we already have sex everyda.   but I'll do it!"

That a girl!

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" I already started doing this about 10mo ago....and am happy to say that it has really improved our relationship. ... [snip!] ... i am huge, its getting more difficult but we amuse ourselves by attemptempting different positions or atleast doing oral sex  "

Oh man! What a champ you are