So my us and and I are having our first child in November we had lost 2 babies previously my sister in law has 2 children we were there both of their births so yesterday her husband texts mine telling him they booked a cruise so won't be here then text back and said hopefully the baby will come before they leave. This is so typical for her as she was late for our wedding didn't bother to show up for the receiving line basically if she is not the centre of attention then it doesn't matter to her oh well